Weed & Feed

Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43
Weeds pop up. It's the nature of weeds. It's what they do! They don't wait for a convenient time or place, they just pop up at the most inopportune times.

Matthew 13 tells us that in the seasons of life there are also weeds that pop up and the source of those weeds is our enemy, the devil. His agenda is clear (John 10:10); it's to steal, kill, and destroy every good thing in our lives. He does that by planting weeds of problems, frustrations, lies, etc in our lives on a daily basis. If we are to overcome, and we can, we must weed & feed. Uproot the weeds the enemy is placing in our lives. But it's also time to feed our souls and grow closer to God through his Word and by talking to him in prayer.

How often should we weed? DAILY! In our flower beds we'll wait several weeks before weeding, but that's not how we should approach it in life. Don't let the devils lies & tricks grow in your life for weeks before dealing with them; pull the weeds daily. Start your day by taking 2 or 3 minutes to ask God for his help today and then give warning to your enemy that you aren't putting up with his junk today. Then end the day by looking at your day and inspecting for weeds that may have sprouted up (anger, lust, envy, bitterness, frustration, depression, etc.). Then pull those weeds.

Make today the start of regular weed pulling in your life. I promise, you will notices a difference.

Snip, Snip!

If you do a quick search on the topic of pruning on the internet you'll find a lot of different descriptions, options, and strategies for pruning. Wikipedia described the reasons for pruning this way, "Reasons to prune plants include deadwood removal, shaping (by controlling or directing growth), improving or maintaining health, reducing risk from falling branches, preparing nursery specimens for transplanting, and increasing the yield or quality of flowers and fruits."

I find that to be an interesting understanding or pruning, especially as it relates to our seasons of life. Sometimes it's just time to remove the dead stuff in our lives. Dead relationships, wastes of time, etc. I like how it describes pruning as a way of shaping our lives by controlling or directing growth. How we prune will determine the appearance of our lives. By pruning we are directing resource, energy, and passion to those places where growth is most needed. By pruning our lives we also are improving or maintaining a healthy life. If we never prune, it's unhealthy! And as the statement goes on to say, by pruning we're positioning our lives to be of greater quality.

Is it painful? Usually! Is it beneficial? ALWAYS!!! Start with your time, resources, & relationships. What do you need to prune today so that tomorrow's can be much better?

The Monday Letdown

If your religion is football then today begins the Monday letdown. I've always considered myself a football (sports) fan, but never really a fanatic. I've never stood in a stadium in 2 degree weather, shirtless and chest painted. I didn't name my son Brett or Aaron and I'm not superstitious about he numbers 4 or 12. While hundreds of thousands of fans lament the demise of their favorite team, the players have already booked their tickets to a warm vacation spot for the the next few weeks. If there is one thing players know it's that Seasons Change. They don't let one circumstance get them down, they know that as long as they get back up and never quit, they will live to play another game, another day!

As it relates to the seasons of your life, they also change. And as long as you don't give up or quit there is another season waiting for you on the other side. As you journey through your current season, embrace it. Accept that God has you exactly where you are for a purpose. Guard your attitude by choosing to focus on the positive instead of the negative. Both are always present, but which one you choose to focus on is up to you. Make wise decisions that will help move your forward. And every day be very intentional about getting some SON; reading the Bible, simple prayer conversation, and connection with others.

Regardless of what happens in sports, I know I will live to fight another day and with God's help I WILL win!

Groaning or Growing

Take a minute to think about the stuff you are going through right now. You know, the stuff you would consider bad, unfair, or just not fun. It's those things that just seem to be part of the cycle of life. If we look close enough we recognize that while there is always some measure of bad going on in our lives, there's also some measure of good that's always happening in our lives as well. We enjoy the good but we hate the bad. And that makes total sense. I'd be concerned if you said you enjoyed going through the bad stuff of life. Stuff like, sickness, relationship struggles, work issues, divorce, financial lack, and the list goes on and on.

The question isn't really whether or not life will be filled with ups or downs, highs or lows; that's a given. The question is really how will you respond to them? To be sure, God doesn't cause our problems, he doesn't tempt us. (James 1:13) But he does allow us to go through things for the purpose of maturing us and strengthening our faith. It's these life experiences that prove whether our faith can sustain the storms or whether it will crumble at the slightest wind.

Stop groaning and start growing! Stop groaning about your problems and start learning from them. Are problems fun? NO! But until you stop groaning about them you'll never grow through them. And ultimately you will stay in that problem until you learn the lesson God is trying to teach you through it. Every time I find myself right in the middle of a problem I've learned to ask God this question, "God, what are you trying to teach me through this?" Then I follow it up with this statement, "Whatever it is, I'm willing to learn. Show me!"

Often the length of your stay in a particular problem is directly connected to your attitude while going through it. Stop groaning! Start taking advantage of the opportunity to grow.