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Weed & Feed

2012-01-30T07:22:00.000-08:00

Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43
Weeds pop up. It's the nature of weeds. It's what they do! They don't wait for a convenient time or place, they just pop up at the most inopportune times.

Matthew 13 tells us that in the seasons of life there are also weeds that pop up and the source of those weeds is our enemy, the devil. His agenda is clear (John 10:10); it's to steal, kill, and destroy every good thing in our lives. He does that by planting weeds of problems, frustrations, lies, etc in our lives on a daily basis. If we are to overcome, and we can, we must weed & feed. Uproot the weeds the enemy is placing in our lives. But it's also time to feed our souls and grow closer to God through his Word and by talking to him in prayer.

How often should we weed? DAILY! In our flower beds we'll wait several weeks before weeding, but that's not how we should approach it in life. Don't let the devils lies & tricks grow in your life for weeks before dealing with them; pull the weeds daily. Start your day by taking 2 or 3 minutes to ask God for his help today and then give warning to your enemy that you aren't putting up with his junk today. Then end the day by looking at your day and inspecting for weeds that may have sprouted up (anger, lust, envy, bitterness, frustration, depression, etc.). Then pull those weeds.

Make today the start of regular weed pulling in your life. I promise, you will notices a difference.

Snip, Snip!

2012-01-23T07:14:00.000-08:00

If you do a quick search on the topic of pruning on the internet you'll find a lot of different descriptions, options, and strategies for pruning. Wikipedia described the reasons for pruning this way, "Reasons to prune plants include deadwood removal, shaping (by controlling or directing growth), improving or maintaining health, reducing risk from falling branches, preparing nursery specimens for transplanting, and increasing the yield or quality of flowers and fruits."

I find that to be an interesting understanding or pruning, especially as it relates to our seasons of life. Sometimes it's just time to remove the dead stuff in our lives. Dead relationships, wastes of time, etc. I like how it describes pruning as a way of shaping our lives by controlling or directing growth. How we prune will determine the appearance of our lives. By pruning we are directing resource, energy, and passion to those places where growth is most needed. By pruning our lives we also are improving or maintaining a healthy life. If we never prune, it's unhealthy! And as the statement goes on to say, by pruning we're positioning our lives to be of greater quality.

Is it painful? Usually! Is it beneficial? ALWAYS!!! Start with your time, resources, & relationships. What do you need to prune today so that tomorrow's can be much better?

The Monday Letdown

2012-01-16T07:15:00.000-08:00

If your religion is football then today begins the Monday letdown. I've always considered myself a football (sports) fan, but never really a fanatic. I've never stood in a stadium in 2 degree weather, shirtless and chest painted. I didn't name my son Brett or Aaron and I'm not superstitious about he numbers 4 or 12. While hundreds of thousands of fans lament the demise of their favorite team, the players have already booked their tickets to a warm vacation spot for the the next few weeks. If there is one thing players know it's that Seasons Change. They don't let one circumstance get them down, they know that as long as they get back up and never quit, they will live to play another game, another day!

As it relates to the seasons of your life, they also change. And as long as you don't give up or quit there is another season waiting for you on the other side. As you journey through your current season, embrace it. Accept that God has you exactly where you are for a purpose. Guard your attitude by choosing to focus on the positive instead of the negative. Both are always present, but which one you choose to focus on is up to you. Make wise decisions that will help move your forward. And every day be very intentional about getting some SON; reading the Bible, simple prayer conversation, and connection with others.

Regardless of what happens in sports, I know I will live to fight another day and with God's help I WILL win!

Groaning or Growing

2012-01-09T07:14:00.000-08:00

Take a minute to think about the stuff you are going through right now. You know, the stuff you would consider bad, unfair, or just not fun. It's those things that just seem to be part of the cycle of life. If we look close enough we recognize that while there is always some measure of bad going on in our lives, there's also some measure of good that's always happening in our lives as well. We enjoy the good but we hate the bad. And that makes total sense. I'd be concerned if you said you enjoyed going through the bad stuff of life. Stuff like, sickness, relationship struggles, work issues, divorce, financial lack, and the list goes on and on.

The question isn't really whether or not life will be filled with ups or downs, highs or lows; that's a given. The question is really how will you respond to them? To be sure, God doesn't cause our problems, he doesn't tempt us. (James 1:13) But he does allow us to go through things for the purpose of maturing us and strengthening our faith. It's these life experiences that prove whether our faith can sustain the storms or whether it will crumble at the slightest wind.

Stop groaning and start growing! Stop groaning about your problems and start learning from them. Are problems fun? NO! But until you stop groaning about them you'll never grow through them. And ultimately you will stay in that problem until you learn the lesson God is trying to teach you through it. Every time I find myself right in the middle of a problem I've learned to ask God this question, "God, what are you trying to teach me through this?" Then I follow it up with this statement, "Whatever it is, I'm willing to learn. Show me!"

Often the length of your stay in a particular problem is directly connected to your attitude while going through it. Stop groaning! Start taking advantage of the opportunity to grow.

The Greatest Story Ever

2011-12-19T07:28:00.001-08:00

"In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told." - Luke 2:1-20 niv

What makes this story so great it that it's real. God gave the greatest gift ever when he sent his son Jesus Christ. Now we have the opportunity to give away again this year. In the busyness of the season, don't forget what it's really all about and take advantage of every opportunity to share the gift of Jesus with others.

Merry Christmas!

Christmas Hope

2011-12-05T07:21:00.000-08:00

"We have lasting hope through the salvation we have in Christ ... Hope means that even when it looks like it's all over, it's not all over yet. That's why the Bible says we can rejoice even in our tribulations. God is working in our hard times to produce proven character and hope in us." - Dr. Tony Evans

Psalm 33:22 "May your unfailing love rest upon us, O LORD, even as we put our hope in you." (NIV)

For millions of people, the Christmas season means nothing more than parties, gifts, decorations, and time off work. For Christians, however, this time of year is a happy reminder of the hope we have because of Jesus Christ.

Before Jesus came, God seemed distant, hidden in the Holy of Holies in the temple, accessible only to the high priest. Worshipers wondered whether their sacrifices were acceptable. They doubted their salvation.

Christ means hope—to the person out of work, to the struggling single mother, to the dying believer. Even if you're just slogging your way through the disappointments of life, if you have Jesus, you have hope. And he is not a false hope, a childish fairy tale that we wish will have a happy ending. When Christ rose from the dead, that ended the argument. Period. Our hope in him is solid and it is real.

Christmas is a renewal of that hope. It reconfirms it for us if our vision has grown dim. It was settled long ago, so we don't have to doubt any more. Jesus is the fulfillment of our hope, our deepest longings come true.

Jack Zavada, a career writer and guest contributor for About.com, is host to a Christian website for singles.

Count Your Blessings

2011-11-14T07:16:00.001-08:00

Last week I had the opportunity to travel to the country of Haiti with several other pastors in the state. While there we had the opportunity to get a quick firsthand glance at the work of Convoy of Hope where they are feeding nearly 75,000 children per day.

On January 12, 2012 Haiti will celebrate the 2nd anniversary of one of the worst earthquakes in history and remember the day that changed their lives forever. We didn't have to look far to see devastation in all it's forms. The rubble of buildings and possessions were obvious, but just as real was the devastation to individual lives & families. Unemployment in Haiti is at 85%, a good paying job provides $150 per month, and most people are lucky if they have 1 meal per day. I'm proud that we've partnered with Convoy of Hope in the past to help provide hope for the future of Haiti and I look forward to making a more intentional commitment to them in the months to come.

Every time I visit third-world countries like this I always walk away with a sense of repentance and appreciation. Repentance for all the times I've complained about what I don't have and appreciation for what I've already been blessed with. If we allow ourselves to, we could spend all day making a list of what we want, haven't gotten, or things we feel we deserve. But we seldom take the time to equally count our blessings. We are blessed! I am blessed! God has richly blessed me, regardless of my bank balance or the status of my wishlist.

Let me challenge you to take 10 minutes this week and write down at least 25 blessings God has provided you with. Remember they aren't all going to be monetary. Then each day this week, review those blessings, add a few more and choose to thankful for all God's done for you!

Have a GREAT week!

Fruit Stand

2011-10-24T07:16:00.001-07:00

Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds (fruit) and praise your Father in heaven....Matthew 5:16 niv

One of the things the Bible indicates will be a clear sign of our commitment to God will be our actions, deeds, works, or fruit. And while those words are often debated the principle is simple. If we claim to be Christians then the actions of our lives should prove it. In our culture, talk is cheap. But when someone puts their what they believe into action, it proves that their beliefs have made it into their heart.

As a Christian we often lose sight of the reason why God wants us to produce fruit in our lives. Why does he want us to produce love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control? -Galatians 5:22-23 nlt Why is this so important to God? It's important because the fruit is for others! He wants our lives to serve as a walking billboard to how great God is. God has a plan. In John 12:32 he lets us in on it when Jesus says, "...as I am lifted up, I will attract everyone to me..." -Message Bible His "Plan A" is for every Christian to produce fruit so others will "taste and see that the Lord is good."-Psalm 34:8

So what should we do? We should set up a fruit stand! We should strive to allow our lives to produce as much fruit as possible. We should go out of our way to let others know just how wonderful our God is! Pick a spot; at work, at home, with family, or neighbors. Set up a fruit stand where people can experience who God really is!

The Power of a Thank You!

2011-10-17T07:16:00.000-07:00

If there is a lost art in the world we live in today it's the art of appreciation and thanks. October has historically been classified as Pastor Appreciation Month. And on behalf of Tricia, myself, and all the pastors at Central Church we are so appreciative of your kind notes and gifts of thanks and encouragement. They are very special and especially encouraging.

But have you ever noticed how we've segregated appreciation & thanks into scheduled and brief moments of life. On birthdays we'll include the kind words or a card to those who are part of our lives. On wedding anniversaries we tell our significant other how much they mean to us and that we love and appreciate them. At Christmas time we'll express our love and thanks to our kids, family, or close friends by purchasing them a gift. Even the idea of Pastor Appreciation Day or Month is somewhat funny because I would have to admit that I would love to feel appreciated more than 1, 2, or 30 days per year.

I had a moment with a friend just he other day where I forced him to look me in the eye as I told him how much I appreciated what he had been doing for me. He mentioned to me later how much that meant to him. Not just that I said the random "thank you" but that I took the time to look him in the eye and really mean it.

I think we've lost the soul nourishing art of giving simple yet intentional appreciation and thanks. When was the last time we went beyond the sometimes meaningless phrase of "thanks" as you walked away, and instead you stopped for another 10 seconds and really told someone who much you appreciated them? How about with your spouse, your kids, your parents, your boss, or even your enemy? The seed of appreciation sown at the right times could prove to increase your life and the lives of others you are around. It's so simple. This week, take the time to verbally show your true appreciation to someone who deserves it.

Have a GREAT week!

5 Years & Counting

2011-10-03T07:12:00.000-07:00

It's hard to believe but this weekend was our 5 year anniversary as the lead pastors at Central Church. When we accepted this position we were excited about the opportunity to move to the city of Green Bay and join hands with those who have made Central great for years. We believed that God was positioning us in this leadership position for a very significant & specific purpose; to reach this city with the gospel and hope of Jesus Christ.

In big and small ways we've begun that over the past 5 years. Many have stepped out of their comfort zones, made commitments to one another, and made the decision to invest their lives in the purposes and the plans of God. Tricia and I have found ourselves inspired, humbled, and challenged by your commitment & passion for God.

Now let's get primed for the next 5 years. We can't change the past but we can change the future. Our work together, along with the favor & blessing of God, has the potential of eternally changing your family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, and ultimately this city. It's not time to sit back and watch, it's time to jump up and get involved. Where are you currently serving others, investing your life, and giving of yourself? What are you doing today that will help you grow in your faith and walk with God? 5 years ago, our family moved here; we are all in! We left everything and everyone we knew to answer the call of God. Are you willing to answer the call of God right here where you are?

We're excited about this 5 year milestone, but we're even more excited about the years to come!

Lesson Learned

2011-09-26T07:40:00.000-07:00

I wouldn't classify myself as a great student as a kid. I had the aptitude to get straight A's but often settled into the high C, low B category. There were many lessons that I didn't take full advantage of that I now wish I had taken more to heart.

I think most of us forget that the lesson's don't end after high school or even college graduation. There are still lessons to be learned, principles to apply, and a lot of action that should follow. It's our ability to recognize the lessons that life, and more likely God, is trying to teach us. God's lessons are everywhere. They can be found in friendships, marriage, work, school, and everything in between. These lessons don't end because you reach a certain age or financial status. They are always there. The question we need to ask ourselves is, "Will I learn?"

All through the Bible people faced new challenges from mountain tops to valleys. But in each circumstance God was trying to teach them something. Something about himself or something about themselves. For the Israelites the journey out of Egypt to the promised land of God was intended to position them to trust God. The journey included things like enemy attack, food shortage, lack of proper housing, and an overall sense of unrest and discontent. But there was a lesson to be learned. Would they trust God? I think it's still the #1 lesson God is trying to teach us today.

Have you learned the lesson? This isn't one that any of us should fail. Whatever has been going wrong, whatever you've been stressed or worried about, whatever you've been questioning in your life; trust God! It's not blind faith! He's never failed. We can trust him. Learn the lesson.

Start Digging

2011-09-19T11:32:00.000-07:00

"This is what the LORD says: Make this valley full of ditches." - 2 Kings 3:16 niv

When I was growing up 45 miles south of St. Louis my dad often had a few cows & pigs for the meat and a small garden even though I wouldn't classify it as farming. I have a great deal of respect for those who make their living from the process of farming. When we think about farming it's most often about the harvest. It's when we drive by those fields that where the corn stalks are 6 feet tall that we even recognize that someone has been tending that field.

If there have ever been people of faith, it's farmers. Because they know that the end result of their work starts long before their season of harvest. It began during the winter season when everything died and the ground replenished. The harvest is dependent upon the season of preparation, the season of nurturing, and then the harvest comes. I've never met a farmer yet who believe they could expect a harvest without first doing the hard work before. Harvest is impossible without first sowing the seed.

That's what God was saying through the prophet Elisha in 2 Kings 3:16. God said, "Dig a ditch! THEN watch me fill it up!" What area of your life do you need God to produce a harvest in? What issue are you facing that will never be resolved with out the intervention of God? DIG A DITCH! Only God can make it rain, but you can dig a ditch! Give God a place to fill up with his blessing, wisdom, provision, and power!

Have a GREAT day!

The Land Between

2011-09-12T06:08:00.000-07:00

I know this about the land between, you've either been there, are there, or will be there. It's an inevitable place in life we each pass through. That place between where we were and were we know God is taking us. The adventure is exciting at first, but soon we realize the journey will be longer and more intense than we imagined. But it's in the journey that we experience transformational growth. The land between is the most fertile soil for this type of growth.

Think back at the toughest times of your life. What did you learn in those moments that has guided you in the years since? What experiences or principles were found in the midst of those hardships? Now, think about those times when things were seemingly perfect. Did you really learn anything or were you just coasting along selfishly focusing on yourself and your pursuits? God leads us through the land between so that we can mature, grow, and learn to trust him more.

If you've found yourself in the land between, I pray that God will sustain and train you. His goal is to develop in you the ability to look beyond your situations and learn to wholeheartedly trust him.

For more on this topic, read Jeff Manion's book, The Land Between. Click Here!

Stop The Noise

2011-08-15T07:26:00.000-07:00

It's August 15th and I'm returning from my "unplugged" status of the past 14 days. I've heard of the severe withdrawals people go through when coming off drug & alcohol addictions. I'm not sure my process has been nearly that severe but I must admit, stopping the noise in my life has proven to be harder than most would think. The noise is everywhere; life has become so noisy that it often drowns out the voice of God.

What happens when you stop the noise? Well, I played games with the kids, went for more walks with my wife, read an entire book in 7 days (big deal for me), completed the New Testament for my second time this year, and most importantly I heard God speaking more clearly than before. It's not like he ever stopped speaking, it's just that God's volume level stays the same while the noise of life seems to get louder and louder.

This experience has enlightened us to some permanent changes we need to make to ensure that the noise level doesn't get that high again. TV, movies, music, internet, and social media are all good things, but I'm looking for the great things of God. Does that mean I'm quitting cold turkey? No. But it does mean that I'm putting limits & boundaries on these things. I am deciding to turn my ear to those things which are most important; God, wife, kids, etc. (in that order). When life stinks, CSI isn't going to help me. If I need advice, Survivor isn't going to give it to me.

Let me encourage you, stop some of the noise in your life and watch how you begin to hear the gentle voice of God more clearly in your life.

Have a GREAT week!

(Our family will be gone the next few weeks on vacation. We appreciate your prayers!)

Unplugged

2011-08-01T09:13:00.000-07:00

In some ways I feel like the past 12 years of my life has been a progressive process of getting more and more connected. First it was the internet in general, then email, and now social media avenues like Facebook & Twitter. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing about these things that makes them wrong in and of themselves. But at some point we can get over connected.

For the next 14 days I've decided to unplug. While also fasting during this time I've decided to disconnect from some of my most time consuming electronic disruptions. While I have to use a computer and internet to work be productive, over these 14 days I'm taking a break from TV, Twitter; and yes, even Facebook! Again, nothing wrong with these things, but in unplugging I want to see what I've really been missing. Plus, anytime you set aside with God is always fruitful.

Take the journey with me if you dare. Pick up a book, have a conversation, play a game, spend time with your family/kids, or even talk to your neighbor.

See you again on August 15th! Have a GREAT week!

Steps To Sexual Purity

2011-07-25T05:50:00.000-07:00

Is sexual purity still possible? Yes!!! It simply requires us to abandon our rules about sex and embrace the biblical guidelines God established. Instead of shying away from the topic or the discussion of it, we need to be upfront and open. According to God's Word, sex is both a biblical & natural thing. It's not something to be ashamed of or to be marginalized to closed door discussions. It's when we refuse to discuss it that we also hinder ourselves from finding freedom from sexual situations that are commonly affecting us in negative ways.

Where are you struggling in the pursuit of sexual purity? Is it pornography, tv & movies, internet content, or unhealthy emotional connections? Wherever you find yourself, you can find freedom from the things that would love to keep you bound up. The place to begin is by asking God to help you. Resist your enemy and he MUST leave! Second, talk to someone else; a friend or pastor. You need someone to fight this battle with you and to hold you accountable. Third, there are some great resources that can help you better understand the battles you are facing and how to fight back with biblical principles. Visit www.centralchurchgb.com for a list of inexpensive resources you can buy to encourage and challenge you.

You can do this! Sexual purity is absolutely possible. Don't do this alone!

Have a GREAT week!

Religion & Politics-No Separation

2011-07-18T07:32:00.000-07:00

To listen to Pastor Aaron's message "Should Religion & Politics Mix?" visit www.centralchurchgb.com.

No matter how hard we may try, this idea of separating church & state just isn't Biblical. Christians should never consider separating their political views from the biblical morals and values of scripture. Those morals and values should be at the core of who we are not only on Sunday but also on election day.

This isn't about a specific party, candidate, or even economic situation. No church should tell you who to vote for; they shouldn't even have too. The convictions of God's Word should give every believer a clear understanding of who to select in a voting booth. Are leaders perfect? No. Are all leaders godly? No. But as Christians we've been called to elect officials who most closely align themselves with the principles of scripture.

There has never been and will never be the perfect candidate for any office. But our biblical mandate is to OBEY our elected leaders because their authority has been established by God. (Romans 13:1). The only time the Bible gives us permission to go against their authority is when the rule of law clearly goes against God's Word. It's also our mandate to PRAY. If Christians would simply take the time they spend complaining about government and use it to pray for government leaders, at minimum, it would at least change our focus and redirect our attitudes. We're also mandated to STAY. Stay involved with the system. Don't abdicate your responsibility to be aware, research issues and candidates, and most importantly go to the polls and cast a vote for Godly principles and values.

Is our government perfect? Absolutely not. But it's still the best thing this planet has to offer and we are blessed to be called Americans. Let's stand for truth in biblical ways and believe for God to intervene on our behalf as we stand for truth.

Ten Commandments of Encouragement

2011-07-11T07:24:00.000-07:00

Encourage one another each day. - Hebrews 3:13 cev

The Ten Commandments of Encouragement.

1. Speak to people.
~There is nothing as encouraging as a cheerful word of greeting.

2. Smile at people.
~It takes 72 muscles to frown, but only 14 to smile.

3. Be generous.
~Generous with praise, cautious with criticism. Recognition & appreciation are priceless.

4. Be considerate.
~Considerate of feelings and opinions of others.

5. Be alert to giving your time and efforts away.
~What counts most in life is what we do for others.

6. Write a note of encouragement.
~Write to someone who is hurting. Include some scripture.

7. Give physical affection.
~Let those you love know they are important in ways they can feel.

8. Believe in others.
~Look for the good in people. Accept & encourage their unique personalities & traits.

9. Life up the defeated.
~Through the promise and power of prayer.

10. Give God's love away.
~Through His death, burial, and resurrection, Jesus has written HOPE on our hearts.

Accepted, Secure, & Significant

2011-06-20T07:30:00.000-07:00

It is the struggle of all struggles. Who am I? What defines me? The essence of these questions finds it's foundations in our identity and value. So many people, both men & women, struggle with this. We crave acceptance, no matter the cost. We want to be secure in something; job, family, public status, or something. And we want our lives to be significant. We want it to count for something.

If we're not careful we can make it the focus of our lives and in doing so we can ultimately get way off track as it relates to God's plans for our lives. Just like that old song says "Looking for love in all the wrong places..." we can find ourselves trying to fill the void in our hearts and lives with things instead of the person of Jesus Christ. And where we tend to end up is in a place where we've tried to please everyone to get what we need, only to find out we're still empty and no better off.

We really do look for acceptance, security, and significance in all the wrong places. Those things can't be found in a bottle, in a relationship, with the perfect body, or with a bigger paycheck. Those things can only be found in Jesus Christ. He already accepts you (Romans 15:7), you are already secure in Him (Romans 8:35), and you were created for significance (John 15:16). Just believe it! Receive it! Start living it!!! Stop looking everywhere else and start walking in the unfailing love, acceptance, security, and purpose of God!

Have a GREAT week!

The Name, the Cross, the Blood

2011-06-12T18:26:00.000-07:00

The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.- 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (niv)

If we aren't in a war, why does the Bible talk so much about it? If we aren't suppose to be part of this fight, why did God give us armor? If we are just supposed to lay down and get run over by our enemy, why are we commanded to engage our enemy in battle? Why? Because it was always Gods plan for his church, his redeemed, his children to pick up the weapons he's provided and go to war; a war that's already been won on the cross of Calvary. It's not more spiritual to stay on the sidelines and deny the war exists. Prayer? Yes. Frozen in fear? NO! God intended for us to get in the game, obey 1 Peter 5:9 & James 4:7, and resist our enemy. Resistance not denial.

You can win the battles you are facing on a daily basis. All you need to do is take up the weapons God's provided, attack your spiritual enemy, and hack him up.

I encourage you to take advantage of some great resources that we've provided on the Central Church website. At minimum, I encourage everyone to order the audio cd's "A Battle To Fight" (men), or "Finding Freedom" (women). These great audio teachings from John & Staci Eldredge will prove to be great insight into the devils tactics and how you can defeat him. I've also made available some books that will be a great read, including "The Beginners Guide To Spiritual Warfare." Reprogram your brain so your mind can respond to the attacks!

Have a GREAT week!

The End Is STILL Near

2011-05-23T05:15:00.000-07:00

It appears that 89-year-old radio preacher, Harold Camping, wasn't accurate on his mathematical equation of the end of the world. On Sunday, a representative said Camping was "somewhat bewildered and mystified". As a Christian, pastor, and more importantly, a person who reads the Bible I find it odd that Camping would be either bewildered or mystified. His predictions went in the face of Biblical truth that gives specific signs of the times that must happen first (& not all of them have yet) as well as the verses that declare that no one will know the day and hour as well as the rapture being at at time we wouldn't expect. At some point, Camping must have ignored the loving correction & accountability of many other prominent pastors & Christian leaders. Ultimately this can be added to the list of "Ridiculous Christian Moments" where even those of us who never believed or agreed with the prediction get lumped in with those who are more false prophet than Christian. (For more info on Harold Camping, his organization, and his lucrative financial empire please click this link.)

But regardless of this debunk prediction let me make be clear; the end is STILL near! We will never know the day, the hour, or the moment it will happen. But scripture is clear, Jesus is still coming back for his church. The Bible gives us some important signs that declare we are closer today than ever before to the rapture of the church. Take advantage of this embarrassing situation and turn it around for great discussion with those who are looking for REAL answers.

Have a GREAT day!

ALL Things Work Together

2011-05-15T19:24:00.000-07:00

"....all things work together for good to those who love God...." Romans 8:28 (nasb)

One day while driving God brought this verse to my mind. It's not uncommon for me to have verses pop in my mind but the effect of this one disturbed me to my core. I think we would all like to think that at some measure or another we are somewhat aware of what God is up to in our life, job, health, relationships, etc. And while we can often see the effects of God, we seldom see the whole picture he is creating. What we would consider our vast knowledge is really just one pieces of the picture, one puzzle piece in a masterpiece that only the master can really see.

I've often known that God was doing things in my life behind the scenes that I didn't know about. But I always thought they were good things, things I would approve of. To be clear God doesn't make bad things happen to us, but he most certainly does allow the real struggles, pressures, and effects of this sinful world to affect us temporarily. There is one word in particular in this verse that disturbed me most; the world "all". God is using "all things" to work together for my good. Not only the positive things but also the negative. He's even using those things that I whine about the most. God merging both the good and the bad in my life to produce in me something more beautiful that I could have ever imagined.

It was in those few minutes in the car that I began doing something I've never done before. I began thanking God for all my problems. Prior to that day I don't think I've ever thanked him for anything except my blessings. But when I began to realize that he was also using my problems to mold, shape, refine, and prepare me I began to see a few more pieces of the picture than I ever had before. God is using ALL THINGS, everything in my life, with the end goal of using them all for my good. Stop complaining about "those things" and start praising God for "all things".

A House Of Prayer

2011-05-08T15:56:00.000-07:00

My Temple will be called a house of prayer for all nations... Mark 11:17 (nlt)

Three times, in Matthew, Mark, & Luke, Jesus made the statement we read above. Three times he emphasized what the atmosphere of his house was supposed to be. Jesus didn't just make this statement simply to inform people, but also to correct what was an obvious problem in his day and ours as well. Name everything that happens at your local church. Adult, youth, and kids services, support groups, meetings, classes, activities, and yes, even prayer slips in there sometimes. I heard one person say, "You can have a concert at the church and pack the place out, but offer a prayer service and you're lucky to get 10 people. People will come for an artist, but Jesus can't draw a crowd!"

Unfortunately, this is more true than most of us would like to admit, not only in America in general but in our local churches specifically. It's amazing just how intentional we are to get to work, family functions, and personal appointments but God can't get on our calendar even for a few hours per week outside of our "semi-regular commitment" to a weekend service. My fear isn't so much the lack of prayer, but my greater fear is that we think everything is OK. We are very quickly turning into the Christians mentioned in 2 Timothy 3.

¹ But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. ² People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, ³ without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, ⁴ treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— ⁵ having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them. - 2 Timothy 3:1-5 (niv - emphasis mine)

What is the solution to this ungodly description? How do we stop being the great fakes and become authentic believers with salvation AND power? I believe it begins with a renewed commitment to prayer. At first it may only be scheduled and routine. Prayer is the LAST thing the devil wants you to do. That's why it's always so hard. He will do everything possible to keep you from it. But when you get reconnected to the source you will experience the power your life has been missing and so desperately needing.

Turn off the radio in the car and pray. At least then you know you will have 2 opportunities per day (plus it may keep your road rage to a minimum). Join us on Wednesday nights at 6:30 p.m. for worship & prayer in the sanctuary at Central. Corporate prayer can be powerful & effective. Doing nothing won't help. Schedule time with God today and watch things begin to turn around.

Many Parts, One Body

2011-05-02T07:01:00.000-07:00

1 Corinthians 12:12 .....many parts make up one whole body. (nlt)

The human body is an amazing thing. More complex than we often realize and more potential than we ever utilize. It's not coincidence that the Apostle Paul used the human body and an example of what the modern day church was supposed to resemble. The church is also a complex organization of parts as well. Each part was intended to be depended upon as well as dependable to the rest of the body. For many church has become that thing they do on a Sunday morning for 60 minutes, but it was intended to be so much more than that.

It was intended to become part of our daily lives. The interaction with other believers, accountability, and support are elemental not only to being Christians but also to being human. We need one another. If our heart decided to take a day off not only would it hurt the body, it would kill the body. If your kidney's decided to quit the entire body would suffer. On their own, they can't survive, but without them neither can the remainder of the body.

God knew something about us; and he should since he created us. God knew we needed each other. He designed us not only with a need for a savior but also a need to connect with others who have been saved as well. His goal wasn't to separate us from the rest of the world, but to use us together to show the rest of the world God's love as well. Every person has a part to play. Whether big or small; every part is vital and important.

What Is A Chreaster?

2011-04-18T12:44:00.000-07:00

The Easter holiday is just around the corner and families will share in a dinner of carrots, colorful hard-boiled eggs, and delicious stuffed rabbit........no wait, maybe not! Poor Easter bunny never gets any respect. Even this great shot from the unmistakable movie The Christmas Story somehow took it's cheap shot at the "wascally wabbit"!

Christmas & Easter are the two holiday's that draw the most attention to Jesus birth, life, death, and resurrection than any other time of the year. Now is the best time ever to hunt yourself a chreaster! What is a chreaster? It's someone who only attends church two times per year; Christmas & Easter. Chreasters can look like grandparents, neighbors, coworkers, or ever the ordinary stranger. But regardless they are still more receptive to the gospel message around this time of year than any other time.

This Easter why not step out and encourage someone you care about to join you for an Easter service. Pastor Aaron joked yesterday, the church isn't just open on 2 Sunday's a year and closed the other 50. Christ has risen! He is alive and well! Our doors are open weekly for people to encounter him in a new and amazing way. Take advantage of this openly religious holiday and reach out to someone who needs to know the true eternal meaning of Easter!

Have a GREAT week!

Next Steps.....Here We Go!

2011-04-10T17:00:00.000-07:00

Today Central took a huge step toward the plans of God as we launched our Next Steps vision expansion campaign. As the byline says it's an intentional step of faith that will allow us to renovate, revive, and reach out. For nearly 53 years Central has been a positive influence on the greater Green Bay area and after today we can proudly say the next 53 years will be even greater.

I am proud of everyone who calls Central Church their regular church home. Your willingness to dream, listen to God, and obey his instruction is inspiring. Only time will tell just how significant our commitment today will truly be. But one thing is for sure, we are moving forward. We will not stall out, stay put, or dream small! We are boldly moving forward and with God's help, nothing can stop us. If God is for us, who can be against us!

And so.......here we go! I can't wait to see all that God will do and to hear all the testimonies of God's faithfulness in the weeks, months, and years to come!

Have a GREAT week!

Weep With Those Who Weep

2011-03-28T11:51:00.000-07:00

On Sunday I shared about a local friend and pastor who was informed on Saturday that his 22 year-old son lost his life serving our country in Afghanistan. When I heard the news I was very deeply moved and felt a sincere compassion for them, their other two children, and all of their extended family and friends. Romans 12:15 says, "weep with those who weep." It's a verse that I've remembered many times before when consoling a family after the loss of a loved one. Words just don't come easy in those times of grief. Often the best comfort I offer is to cry with them, love them, and simply be there for them.

Perspective is an amazing thing. One moment we can view our lives as happy, blessed, and good. And a few moments later we're depressed, discouraged, and ready to quit. Yesterday I talked about how regularly looking up to God in prayer clears our perspective. Our view is bad. God's view is much more clear and accurate. I've learned in life that the more time I spend focusing on my problem, the greater my problem seems. I've also learned the that the more time I spend focusing on God, the smaller my problems seems compared to the greatness of God. In most cases, my problems doesn't change at all but the way I view it does.

As you approach this week I'd like to challenge you to do a few things.

Look Up to God in prayer more often than you usually do. You need it!
Keep things in perspective. Don't let minor things become major.
Be THANKFUL! Recognize just how blessed you are! Choose to focus on the good in your life. Do you get to hug your loved ones tonight? You are richly blessed!

I would also ask you to remember Pastor Ron & Debbie Ross in your prayers this week and in weeks to come as they mourn the loss of their son.

Have a GREAT week!

I Believe.....

2011-03-15T06:37:00.000-07:00

Regardless of the topic or the discussion a common phrase I hear at the beginning of most sentences is, "I believe....", then you will hear the person's opinion about a specific topic. In Wisconsin that opinion has centered most recently on the Budget Repair Bill; and the opinions are strong. Worldwide the opinion is focused on the tragedy in Japan. And our prayers go out to those affected. In the Christian world the most recent focus has been centered on a book written by a prominent pastor that is presumed to promote the theology of universalism. Part of the universalism teaching is that a loving God would never send someone to hell, if in fact hell actually exists. And the articles, attacks, etc. has ensued. Right? Wrong? I don't know haven't read the book and wouldn't want to make that judgment until I had.

My greater concern is the number of people I hear making statements that begin with "I Believe...", but when asked they can't tell you the foundation upon which they are establishing their beliefs. Typically it's either strictly based on their personal opinion or it's founded in some Biblical truth or fact but they can't substantiate their beliefs. Let me be clear, just because "you believe" something doesn't make it accurate or morally right. Especially if it contradicts the ultimate measure of wrong & right; the Bible. Before we give our opinions about how what someone's beliefs are wrong, why not begin by first solidifying what we believe first. Instead of standing against everything (which at times it is necessary to stand against something) why not start by declaring what you stand for! For me, here is my starting point; my declaration of what I firmly believe in, as supported by God's Word.

I BELIEVE.......

The Bible is the divine, infallible, inspired Word of God.
In the Trinity of God (Father, Son, & Holy Spirit).
Jesus Christ is the literal Son of God born of a virgin.
Every person is born with a sinful nature and in need of a Savior.
Salvation comes through Jesus Christ alone and he paid the price of our sins on the cross.
In a literal heaven prepared for those who have accepted Christ & a literal hell for those who have rejected Christ.

This I believe! Why? Because the Bible says every one of these statements are true and statement #1 means I must believe it as well. Before we declare our beliefs about marginal things, we should first know what foundation our faith is built upon. I encourage every Christian to stand on what God's Word believes first and then compare your opinions to the truth of God's before you share them with others. Don't position yourself to believe something that God's Word does not.

God Meant It For Good

2011-03-06T16:40:00.000-08:00

You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result. Genesis 50:20 (NASB)

Joseph’s life was anything but peaceful. He was sold into slavery by jealous brothers and thrown into prison on false charges. Yet, he remained free of bitterness or regret and saw God as the “Great Engineer” behind even the worst of circumstances.

In a final confrontation with his brothers, he graciously noted, “You meant it for bad; God meant it for good.”

“God meant it for good” says:

You can accept the past. No sin, no action, no choice on your part is too big for God to handle or too big to be worked out for good (Romans 8:28). Just ask Joseph! Better yet, ask his brothers who ended up relying on him for their survival.

You can embrace the present. There’s no need to play the “what if” game. The past is forgiven and gone, and the future is in God’s omnipotent hands; so you’re free to focus on the present: “Wherever you are, be all there,” says Jim Elliot. God wants you in the present because that’s where his grace will flow.

You can look expectantly toward the future. Even if you make mistakes today, God still controls your future. Walking in the Spirit, you can live life to the fullest, without fear of making mistakes that take you out of God’s control. Even when things appear to be terrible, you can trust that God is still working out his divine plan for your life.

This devotional is by Jon Walker, editor of the Daily Hope Devotionals and author of Costly Grace.

Tithe Sunday Challenge :: Update!

2011-02-28T13:02:00.000-08:00

I wanted to share an exciting update for everyone regarding our Tithe Sunday Challenge.

YTD Weekly Tithe Average: $ 8,167
Tithe Sunday Challenge: $15,638

PRAISE THE LORD!!! I'm excited to see how everyone's faithfulness has proven to be amazing. So here's something to think about. What would happen if everyone was faithful with the blessing of God in our lives and committed to tithe regularly and consistently? Because we aren't just talking about money; we're talking about lives that would be changed. Every dollar invested in God's Kingdom is ultimately attached to reaching someone without God, providing discipleship, and releasing them to reach others. It's walked out every week in our ministries to kids & youth, in the planned outreach events, through small group discipleship, by helping those in need, and caring for others.

Even though stewardship involves money that's not what it's all about! It's about people. It's about lives that matter to God. It's about obedience to God's plan and the promised blessing of God. I've already heard several testimonies of how God has ALREADY proven faithful this past week as people were obedient to step out and give faithfully. I look forward to hearing more as God proves himself in your life as well.

Let's keep on stepping out in obedience and faith. Just watch what God is going to do!!!!

Pastor Mark

Take God At His Word

2011-02-13T18:08:00.000-08:00

A devotional by Buddy Owens, teaching pastor at Saddleback Church.

“I am convinced that God, who began this good work in you, will carry it through to completion” (Philippians 1:6 GWT).

Lasting change doesn’t start with you. It starts with God. And it all begins when you say, “Yes Lord, I’m taking you at your word.” God isn’t asking you to make a promise that you can’t keep. He is asking you to receive a promise that only he can keep.

When you confess your faith, you are receiving God’s promises into your life, and he always keeps his promises. When you confess your faith, you are taking God at his Word, and you can!

He loves you – you have his Word on it (John 3:16).
You are forgiven – you have his Word on it (Psalm 103:3).
You belong to him – you have his Word on it (Romans 1:6).
He will never leave you or give up on you – you have his Word on it (Hebrews 13:5).
He will meet your needs – you have his Word on it (Philippians 4:19).
He has a plan and a purpose for your life – you have his Word on it (Jeremiah 29:11).

As you build your life on the Word of God, he will truly make you into a new person – a total makeover from the inside out. And what God starts, he will finish.

Your responsibility is to confess it. Let it renovate your life. “Be made new in the attitude of your minds.” But let me warn you: expect to be challenged. The Devil doesn’t want you to be free, so he will whisper old lies to you. He’ll try to discourage you and accuse you. He will bring up your past to haunt and harass you. But, as Greg Laurie says, “Whenever the Devil tries to remind you of your past, remind him of his future.” And start confessing your faith.

What lies do you still believe? What is keeping you from walking in the freedom and joy of the Lord? Start declaring the truth of the God’s Word and then act on that truth.

And that will truly make a new you.

Big Win...Bigger Wins!

2011-02-07T05:18:00.000-08:00

I certainly consider myself a football fan in general and a Packer fan specifically. Everyone around Green Bay is in a state of euphoria about the Packers win last night against the Pittsburgh Steelers in Super Bowl XLV (that's 45 for those of you who are confused by roman numerals like me). Where I watched the game I saw people jump, shout, clap, run around, and almost pass out at times. The energy was high and the passion ran deep. It was a great win for a city still divided about whether they would wear a jersey with a 4 or 12 on it (either is fine). It was a Big Win!

I've joked with a few people this morning because I've heard people saying, "We won the Super Bowl!" My question has been, "If WE won the Super Bowl, where is my ring and when is the check coming?" Nobody has been able to give me a date yet. (ha.ha.) In last night's game, I never stepped onto the field once. I never threw a pass, covered a receiver, or scored a touchdown. My greatest contribution was making several trips to the food table. Aside from my occasional cheering and armchair quarterbacking I didn't contribute much to the big win.

But for me and for you there are Bigger Wins! Bigger than the Super Bowl and bigger than the Lombardi trophy. James 1:12 says, "Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him." In a world full of awards there is only one that I'm striving for; the crown of life! It is our persistence through trials and struggles, our determination to be a Godly spouse, parents, and individuals that earns us this win. Is it easy; no! Is it worth it; yes!

Celebrate Green Bay! Celebrate a Big Win! But also remember that there are BIGGER WINS to be had today in your everyday attitudes, decisions, and obedience to God.

Have a GREAT day!

You Say Goodbye, I Say Hello!

2011-01-31T07:58:00.000-08:00

I once heard someone say, "The only constant in life is change!" How true that is. Central is in a season of change right now. This week will be Pastor Tim & Misty's last week with us as our Worship Pastors. They joined the Central Team in November of 2007. They were the first full-time Worship Pastors Central has ever had in it's nearly 53 year history. Over the past 3 years they've progressively improved every aspect of of our worship, media, and technology ministries. They accepted a new position at Twin Rivers Church in Cooper City, Florida. We will miss them as they leave, but we also bless them as they step forward into God's fresh plans for their lives. Please don't miss the opportunity to express your personal thanks to them this Friday evening from 6:30 - 8:30 p.m. as we host a reception for them in the Youth Room.

This season of change has also brought us our new Children's Pastors, Paul & Shelby Anglemyer. They just made the big move from Rapid City, South Dakota last week and are getting settle into their home in Green Bay. Along with their two children, Alyssa & Adrian, they come to Green Bay with 18+ years of children's ministry experience and are poised to lead Central's kids ministry to the next level. We are very excited to have them on Central's leadership team and we are looking forward to great things in our kids ministry in years to come.

So as we transition, keep Pastor Tim, Misty, & Gavin in prayer as they are in this exciting moving process. And as you do, also remember to pray as we search for our next worship pastor. Also keep the Anglemyers in your prayers as they get settle in and get things established for tremendous ministry. The future looks bright at Central Church as we take our Next Steps toward God's plans for our church and our city.

Have a GREAT week!

Excited to Serve

2011-01-24T12:59:00.000-08:00

It's the morning after the NFC Championship game and the Packers walked away victorious! All around Green Bay you can sense the excitement and energy of the Pack heading to the Super Bowl. I even had a few people open the door for me at various places today. Who knew that going to the Super Bowl would make people nice (ha.ha.) I can't imagine how everyone is going to be over the next two weeks between now and the big game.

Just a thought......when was the last time you were equally excited to serve someone else with no strings attached? I'm excited about the Packers moving forward but I'm even more excited about what God wants to do in and through his church in Green Bay!!! Everyone of us was created to be a blessing to others by serving them in very simple and practical ways. What is it that you love to do? What is something you do regularly that others often compliment you on? I'll bet that your greatest abilities are found in there somewhere. What if you used those abilities to serve others?

Now that's something to cheer about!!!

Prayer Changes Me

2011-01-16T06:18:00.001-08:00

There are a lot of things that change on a day-to-day basis. Sometimes too much to even keep up with. But think about this....of all the changes that affect us on a daily, monthly, or yearly basis how many of those changes are positive and life changing?

What if it was possible to affect the changes that happen? Would you be willing to do what it takes to see it happen? What if it involved prayer? Sure, we might say we pray but our prayers are usually pretty selfish and self-serving. When is the last time we not only presented our needs but also stopped long enough to let God talk to us in return?

Communication in any relationship is vital. The two key elements are talking & listening. If we only do the former without the later then we've failed at communicating in a way that is mutually beneficial. When God talks it has the potential to change us! No my situations may stay the same, but inside, I can be changed. Most days it feels like there is very little I truly have the ability to control. And while I certainly can't control God or his responses, I've found that every time I take even just a few moments to talk to him and listen, something inside me changes. My attitude, perspective, and emotions almost always take a turn for the better.

Do you want a better day? Do you want a life of hope and peace? Do you want to feel calm in the middle of the storm? Then stop for a just a few minutes several times a day to talk to God. You'll be amazed just how much those prayers change you!

Have a GREAT week!

Be Strong and Courageous

2011-01-10T07:36:00.000-08:00

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” - Joshua 1:9 (NIV)

Remember those early years in bed at night when suddenly out of know where fear overcame you? Your parents were just down the hall but you were sure there was something in the closet, a monster under the bed, or somebody just outside your window. It was in that moment that you got your first taste of a feeling called fear. While fear is a real feeling those things that we fear aren't nearly as real as they might originally seem. We would all like to believe that we no longer deal with fear like we did as a child but while the focus of our fears might have changed (there really is no monster under your bed ;-) the feeling itself is still very present , very raw, and very real. But just like earlier in life, the focus of our fear isn't nearly as real as we might believe. It's typically fear itself and the emotions, worry, and stress that turns out to be worse than the feared event, conversation, decision, or situation.

Truth replaces feelings; or at least it should. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us that God did not give us a spirit of fear, but instead he's given us the ability to have a sound mind instead. Philippians 4:6 tells us not to worry about anything but instead to pray about everything. And when we do this it tells us that we will receive God's unbelievable peace for our hearts and minds.

I encourage you today, don't allow the Devil to use your mind as a playground! Don't allow your feelings to dictate your relationships, attitudes, or week. Be strong and courageous!! God will be with you wherever you go and he is able to give you the strength to make it through whatever life throws at you!

Small Changes = Big Results

2011-01-02T16:13:00.000-08:00

Life is an ever changing thing. Just when you think you've got it all figured out, things change. With a new year comes change as well. I've found that it's not always the big changes that produce the biggest results. Often it's the intentional small changes followed by consistency that proves to be most effective.

As you approach 2011, consider what small changes you could make in your family, at work, and in your personal life that could produce tremendous results. It may be more scheduled time with family or a better attitude at work. In your relationship with God, it might be as simple as reading one chapter of the New Testament per day. Even if you only did this 5 days a week you would read the entire N.T. in less than one year. What if you turned the radio off on the ride to work and simply prayed; talked to God just like you would a close friend. How would these small changes impact 2011?

The definition of insanity is: doing the same things over and over again expecting a different result. Add some sanity to your year. Make some small changes and watch the big results happen in 2011!

Christmas Focus

2010-12-20T08:12:00.000-08:00

I am looking forward to taking some time off to spend with family and friends over the Christmas holiday. I will also be doing my best not to gain 10 pounds with the various meals, cookies, and treats I know will be put before me. I look forward to watching my children open their gifts and the expression on their faces. I've always loved giving gifts. When I buy a gift for someone I always want to give it to them right away; who cares about waiting until their birthday or even for Christmas Day! And of course I'm human and also like to receive gifts and presents as well.

But when all the gifts are opened and the last cookie is gone, what will be the end result of this Christmas holiday besides a potential credit card bill waiting to be paid in January? Over the years I've begun to realize that the significance of this holiday is about far more than the commercialization that begins in September. There really was a baby born in a manger in Bethlehem. He really was the Son of God and is still the Savior of the world. His announcement to shepherds, an unlikely crew of guys, was humble and tame even though the impact of his birth was divine and eternal. The challenge for everyone is to remember that his birth is still equally significant today. Every time someone receives Jesus into their lives, it's as though he's born again with their hearts serving as the manger.

I can think of a few gifts I've received over the years, many are forgotten though. But one gift stands out so clearly. I can remember the gift of Jesus I received at my bedside at age 8. And while I've failed plenty of times from that time until now, Jesus has always been willing to forgive, restore, and renew my life. As we view the holiday's fresh and new this year, remember to put in focus the greatness of this day. Remember the gift of Jesus. And if at all possible, give that gift to someone else this year.

Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!

Our Vows

2010-12-06T06:07:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was a beautiful moment as I watched husbands & wives recommit their lives and marriages to God and to one another. I mentioned how for most of us, when we spoke our vows on our wedding day we really didn't know what we were talking about or committing to. We say for better or worse but we assume it will always be better and never worse. Richer or poorer but we assume richer never poorer. But once some years have passed we realize that it's not one or the other it's actually both. On our wedding day, if someone told us just how hard marriage was going to be we would either think they were lying or run for the hills. But after 16 years of marriage, richer or poorer, sickness or health, and forsaking all others; it's been the most amazing journey in my life. Marriage isn't an event and neither is life. It's a journey. Along the way we learn so much about ourselves, about our spouse, and about a God who loves us more than we could ever know. He is using every relationship, including our marriage, to shape us into the people he longs for us to be.

If you're single, don't be discouraged. Paul tells us in the New Testament that there is nothing wrong with being single. Does God have a marriage partner for you? Maybe. Maybe not. I don't know and neither do you. But instead of focusing on finding your soul-mate, why not focus on knowing the creator of your soul. If your affection and attention are focused on God, you might just look up one day and realize he's brought someone into your life as a reward for your faithfulness to him.

Well, the Christmas season is upon us. Starting next Sunday we will start our holiday series entitled "Christmas Is For-Giving". Jesus was born in the manger for a purpose; to ultimately be our avenue for forgiveness. In the series we will talk about how to forgive others, ask for forgiveness, and also about how to forgive ourselves. I'm looking forward to the weeks that remain in 2010!

Have a GREAT week!

Give It To God

2010-11-28T18:29:00.000-08:00

Commit your work to the Lord, and then your plans will succeed. - Proverbs 16:3 (NLT)

I spent the first 3 years out of high school working in the construction field. One of the things I had to learn was how to read the plans to ensure that the goals of the architect were achieved. Just one mistake, one wrong measurement, one variation from the plans could cause the whole project to get off track. I learned very quickly just how important it was to follow the plans.

In the past 16 years I've also found the same thing to be true of life as well. When I started out, I placed a pretty high value on my plans; the ones I made. But as I was willing to finally admit, God had plans for my life as well and sometimes my plans didn't line up with his plans. My mistakes, my wrong decisions, and my miscalculations always cause my life to get way off track from God's plans.

Sometimes I don't learn real fast, but this verse couldn't make it any more simple. This is one of those verses I always talk about; a command followed by a promise. The Command: Commit your work to the Lord. The Promise: Then your plans will succeed. You don't get the promise until you obey the command first. God is the master architect for life. Jeremiah 29:11 tells us that he knows every plan he has for us. The smartest thing we can do is stop, submit our lives and our plans to God, then watch how God works. It's not always easy to do but it is the only way to succeed.

What plans do you need to commit to God this week? How long have you been struggling to succeed? All you have to do is commit it to God, listen to his instruction, and you will succeed like never before.

Have A GREAT Week!

Note of Birthday Thanks!!!

2010-11-24T06:09:00.000-08:00

Thank you to everyone who sent me birthday best-wishes yesterday! 36; only 4 years to 40!!! Birthdays are a regular reminder not only that I'm getting older but also that I am a blessed man! I have an amazing wife of 16 years and 2 wonderful kids. But the most significant blessing of my life is my personal relationship with Jesus Christ. To all my family and friends both near and far, the most significant gift I could receive from you is to know you've started that relationship as well. Not religion, but a relationship. Don't let a negative past experience at a church or with a stupid so-called Christian keep you from that personal relationship. Stop for just a minute, right now, and start your relationship by saying...... "Jesus, I know I'm not perfect and I've made plenty of mistakes.....but I'm asking you to forgive me of all my sins.....come into my life in a real way.....show me how to live my life for you.....AMEN!" Congrats, you just started your relationship. Now find a great church; not a lame one that doesn't make sense. If you need help finding one. I can give you some suggestions, no matter where you live.

God Bless and have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday!!!

What Are You Thanful For?

2010-11-21T18:42:00.000-08:00

I first want to express my thanks to our missionary guests from this past Sunday, Matt & Stacey Leighty. The are just beginning the process of raising the necessary funds to serve military personnel and their families in Germany. But in the next 12 - 16 months they will raise those funds and be on their way to serving those families. I appreciated his challenge to share our faith regardless of the obstacles. Thanks Pastor Matt!

With Thanksgiving only a few days away, let me ask the most basic question. What are you thankful for? We often think about what we don't have, but we seldom think about just how blessed we are. The measure of blessing isn't determined solely by the balance of your checking account. For me it's measured by the people we know, the people we've invested in, and the potential of those same people.

What about you? What are you thankful for? Today is a great day to remember where you've been and what God has brought you too. As you sit around your table this Thanksgiving with family & food, don't forget to express your thankfulness to those around the table and most importantly to the God who made it all possible.

Have a WONDERFUL holiday!!!

What Is Commitment?

2010-11-15T06:32:00.000-08:00

In a conversation I had with a few people over the weekend, we began talking about what we viewed as the biggest obstacle for most people in marriage, church, business, etc. That obstacle is commitment. Those things that are important in life require so much more than just a surface commitment. Here is a clip from an article I read this weekend.

The most important single factor in individual success is COMMITMENT. Commitment ignites action. To commit is to pledge yourself to a certain purpose or line of conduct. It also means practicing your beliefs consistently. There are, therefore, two fundamental conditions for commitment. The first is having a sound set of beliefs. There is an old saying that goes, "Stand for something or you'll fall for anything." The second is faithful adherence to those beliefs with your behavior. Possibly the best description of commitment is "persistence with a purpose".

Many successful business people are hailed as visionary leaders. On careful inspection they are found to be individuals who hold firmly to a simple set of commitments, usually grounded in beliefs such as "the best product money can buy", or the highest possible customer service". It is the strength of these commitments, religiously followed, that led to their business success.

I think the question everyone should ask themselves is this, "What am I committed to? And is that what God wants me to be committed to?" There are so many things to invest our time, energy, and money in but where is God telling us to invest it.

I encourage you to evaluate your commitments this week!

Love & War :: Resources

2010-11-07T18:59:00.000-08:00

Here are 3 key resources I talked about on Sunday morning. Captivating is a great book written for women. Love & War is the topic of our marriage series and is a new book focusing on marriage. And Wild At Heart is a book for men that challenges the specific issues we face. I encourage everyone to pick up at least one of these books either locally or online to help you grow as an individual or as a couple. Click on the books below to purchase the books or to get more information.

Have A GREAT Week!!!
Pastor Mark

Does God Expect Christians To Vote?

2010-10-31T19:09:00.000-07:00

It is our contention that it is the duty and responsibility of every Christian to vote and to vote for leaders who promote Christian principles. God is most certainly in control, but that does not mean we should do nothing to further His will. We are commanded to pray for our leaders (1 Timothy 2:1-4). In terms of politics and leadership, there is evidence in Scripture that God has been displeased with our choices of leadership at times (Hosea 8:4). The evidence of sin’s grip on this world is everywhere. Much of the suffering on earth is because of godless leadership (Proverbs 28:12). Scripture gives Christians instructions to obey legitimate authority unless it contradicts the Lord’s commands (Acts 5:27-29; Romans 13:1-7). As born-again believers, we ought to strive to choose leaders who will be themselves led by our Creator (1 Samuel 12:13-25). Candidates or proposals that violate the Bible’s commands for life, family, marriage, or faith should never be supported (Proverbs 14:34). Christians should vote as led through prayer and study of both God’s Word and the realities of the choices on the ballot.

Christians in many countries in this world are oppressed and persecuted. They suffer under governments they are powerless to change and governments that hate their faith and silence their voices. These believers preach the gospel of Jesus Christ at risk of their own lives. In the U.S.A., Christians have been blessed with the right to speak about and choose their leaders without fearing for themselves or their families. In the U.S.A., in recent elections, about 2 of every 5 of self-professed Christians took that right for granted and did not vote. About 1 in 5 self-professed, eligible Christians are not even registered to vote.

In our day and age, there are many who want to drive the name and message of Christ completely out of the public arena. Voting is an opportunity to promote, protect, and preserve godly government. Passing up that opportunity means letting those who would denigrate the name of Christ have their way in our lives. The leaders we elect—or do nothing to remove—have great influence on our freedoms. They can choose to protect our right to worship and spread the gospel, or they can restrict those rights. They can lead our nation toward righteousness or toward moral disaster. As Christians, we should stand up and follow our command to fulfill our civic duties (Matthew 22:21).

How Should Christians Vote?

2010-10-25T06:22:00.000-07:00

With only 9 days left until the midterm elections I'd love to answer a question that is rarely asked by most Christians. How should Christians vote? When we step into the voting booth most of us consider our selections completely private, personal, and nobody's business. The one thing we forget is that while no one here may know how you've cast your vote there is someone who knows exactly how you voted; and he's no little someone. God sees where your vote is cast. Does your vote glorify God and move HIS agenda forward?

Notice the question is not "Who should a Christian vote for?" because this not a party discussion. I'm not talking about liberals, conservatives, moderates, democrats, republicans, or independents. What I'm talking about is the filter every Christian should filter their vote through; the Bible! How should a Christian vote? A Christian should vote for candidates who uphold Biblical morals, values, and truth. This is hard at times because we sometimes find ourselves voting for the lesser of two evils. Sometimes no candidate completely stands with the Bible on every issue, but we still have the obligation to stand for truth at the highest level available. A Christian shouldn't base their vote on issues like the economy (even though we all want it to improve); God is our source & supplier. No matter the health care policies; God is still my healer. We need to stay focused on Biblical absolutes that are in question in our society as a starting point, then we can filter down to lesser issues.

Let me give you a few examples of issues the Bible is clear on but our society and candidates differ on. Abortion is clearly outlined in the Bible as murder. Marriages is clearly outlined in the Bible as between one man and one woman. No other equation equals marriage in the Bible. Should we be two issue voters? NO. But I do believe we must start somewhere and these two issues are devastating our current culture. If a candidate can't get it right on these issues that the Bible couldn't be more crystal clear on, then where else will they deviate from God's truth.

My simple point is this. As Christians we are obligated to stand for truth in every area of life, including who we elect to represent and serve us. First, you have an obligation to vote. Don't sit out on any election where you can stand for truth. Second, you can't vote if you don't research the candidates. Don't blindly vote, be informed and compare the views of candidates to Gods Word. Third, and most important, PRAY! Pray for God's wisdom, candidates that will honor Him and stand for truth.

Just something to think about as we approach election day. Have a GREAT week!

(Below is the Christian Coalition's voter guide comparing candidates views on Biblical issues)

What Is Success?

2010-10-18T06:42:00.000-07:00

That is the primary question that has been bouncing around my head for the past 3 or 4 weeks. What is success?, or, What does it mean to be successful? Have you ever asked yourself that question too? I think it's ingrained in the human mind to desire success, to strive for it, and be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it. And people are willing to spend time, energy, money to find it. People even go to the extreme of losing a marriage, severed relationships, even with their kids to get success. But think about this for a minute. If we don't know what the definition of success is, and we spend our entire lives trying to achieve it, only to realize in the end that we weren't even heading the right direction. So if we are to have any chance at success we MUST understand what it really is!

If you asked 10 people the definition of success you would likely get 10 different answers. Some would describe it as having enough money to do whatever you want not and in retirement. Another would describe it as having a position of respect & recognition in society. Others would describe success as having a great marriage and wonderful kids. And still others would describe success as living healthy and enjoying life. And to be honest, most of us would like to have all of these things plus much, much more. But let me be clear, while all these things seem great and a lot of people strive for them, this isn't the definition of success.

As a pastor I've tried to answer this question for my life. What does success look like? It could be a lot of people attending my church, and most Sunday's we are full, but I don't feel successful. It could be the number of people who choose Christ as Savior each week, and that's an awesome thing, but that doesn't make me feel successful. It might be the testimonies I receive from people who say my sermon touched them very deeply and caused them to make some changes in their lives, and that's great, but I still don't feel successful. So if you can achieve all this plus the other stuff above and still not feel successful then what is success?

After talking with other leaders and praying I think I've come to the elusive answer. Success is directly connected with obedience. The question we should be asking ourselves on a daily basis is, "Am I doing what God's told me to do?" This might relate to your job, relationships, money, church, using your abilities, and most likely it relates to every one of these things. What's the last thing God told you to do? Are you doing it? If so, then you are successful because the results (money, health, family, blessing) are the byproduct of your obedience. Matthew 6:33 says it most clearly, "But more than anything else, put God's work first and do what he wants. Then the other things will be yours as well." (CEV) It's funny how our idea of success starts with trying to get the "other things" first hoping to please God in the end. But God says, please put me first then the other stuff will come because of your obedience.

Do you want success? What's the last thing you know God told you to do? Start doing it NOW! God's definition of success is the one that matters and your obedience is the key to achieving it!

Take this to heart, make the necessary changes, and watch your life become successful!

Well Done....Good & Faithful Servant!

2010-10-11T05:32:00.000-07:00

Chapter 25 of the book of Matthew is centralized on one theme; being prepared for the return of our God & Savior so that one day we can spend eternity in heaven. There are varied opinions about how we get to heaven. Some believe that all roads lead to heaven while others believe that it's something we earn by doing more good than bad in our lives. I think it's funny that many believe in heaven but few believe in a literal place called hell; as if one could exist without the other. But regardless, the timeless truth of scripture clears it up. Both are a very real destination and the only path to heaven goes directly through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross (John 14:6).

What surprises me most is that Christians (by lifestyle or by name only) don't understand that what Matthew chapter 25 is really about. In our zealousness to simply think about eternity in heaven we forget that there is preparation to be done here first. There are 3 parables, or stories, that Jesus tells. The first is about 10 virgins and whether they were prepared for the return of their bridegroom. This speaks directly to the most important decision of life; salvation through Jesus Christ. The second parable of the talents is about how we treat that gift of salvation. Will we be faithful and fruitful with the blessing of God in our lives or will we squander it and do nothing with it. The third parable of the sheep and goats speaks of how we live our lives. Are we living in such a way that we talk, walk, and live in such a way that Christ is evident to all? Salvation through Jesus Christ, faithfulness with his blessing, and a lifestyle that screams the love of Jesus Christ.

Verse 21 contains a statement we each want to hear someday when we stand before the throne of God, "Well done, good and faithful servant." We want to hear it, but will we? I wholeheartedly defend the fact that forgiveness of sins only comes as the gift of God through the cross of Jesus Christ. This is the only way sins are forgiven. But following the act of salvation, God REQUIRES faithfulness to his Word, faithfulness to his purpose, and faithfulness to his church. He says that true salvation will be accompanied by a changed heart, mind, and life. Neither of these things are part of the act of salvation but they are the required after effect of true salvation. We often forget this.

Have you received Jesus Christ as your personal savior? Do you understand God's specific purpose for your life? What are your gifts (helping, construction, cleaning, finance, music, teaching, administration, leader, encourager, creative, etc) and are you faithfully using them in the church to serve the entire family of God? Are you still making excuses for your bad attitude, habits, anger, reactions, cursing, complaining, greed, selfishness, gossip, laziness, complacency, bitterness, etc. or is your life daily reflecting God more and more everyday?

Salvation is free and only through Christ. But if we want to hear "Well done, good and faithful servant", we must follow through with faithfulness and by training ourselves to become more like Jesus in the way we live everyday. May the decision today to be faithful to God's purpose and plans. Ask God to help you understand the things in your life you need to change to become more like him. Then the most practical step.........start doing it!

Have a GREAT week!

It's a Journey...Not an Event!

2010-10-04T07:00:00.000-07:00

No matter where we go or how far it is from where we start to our destination, my kids will often ask the quintessential question, "Are we there yet?" followed quickly by, "How much longer until we get there?" They're often very excited about the destination but not very excited about the journey to get there. We go back to Missouri a few times a year and they are always happy to see grandparents & friends, but about halfway into the 9 hour drive they always ask those questions with exasperated looks on their face. Unfortunately I have to be the bearer of bad news telling them we have 4 hours to go. But being a good Dad (actually just being a Dad who doesn't want to hear them whine for hours), we'll stop at the gas station get a snack to take their minds off the distance and they endure to the end.

It's funny how the story of Christian life parallels the feelings my kids express on those long trips. No matter how long you've been a Christ-follower, haven't you even thought to your self or even asked God, "Are we there yet? Am I getting anything right in my Christian walk? When am I going to stop dealing with the same stuff everyday? When will I feel like I am a good Christian? How much longer?"

In this day of modern conveniences we expect a fast pace and quick results. When we travel we travel quickly. But the Christian life isn't a 30-minute car ride. It's a lifelong journey. Becoming a Christian isn't an event; it's a journey. Think of the journey more like a walk than a high-speed trip from point A to point B. If you walked from wherever you currently live to the southern tip of South America it would take far longer than flying or even driving. And along the way you would encounter heat, rain, roadblocks, obstacles, injuries, and delays. But if you walk long enough you will reach your destination. You'll reach it with an experience, a story, and most likely you'll be a different person for the better.

Christianity is not an event; it's a journey. Receiving Jesus Christ through salvation is the start of the journey and the destination is eternal life in heaven with him forever. Between the start the destination are plenty of lessons, obstacles, delays, pressure, and frustration. But it also includes joys, grace, favor, blessing, people, and hope that overcomes them all! Don't give up on the journey no matter how hard it becomes. Whatever mountain you are climbing today, just remember at the top you will have the perspective to see what God was doing. Then going down the backside, put your arms in the air like on a roller coaster and praise God for all that He's shown you and done in your life.

Have a GREAT week!!!

Looking Back

2010-09-27T12:32:00.000-07:00

Sometimes life gets so busy that we forget to look back at just how far we've come. I'm certainly not where I used to be, but I'm not yet to where I know God wants me to be. It's somewhere in that middle ground that we can look back and see all that God has brought us through. I think it's healthy because we can pause for a moment and thank God for walking with us the whole way. All the stuff we thought we'd never make it through; we did! He was with us the entire way leading, directing, loving, and nurturing. It also gives us a great opportunity to look ahead to where God is leading us. It's great to look back, but if you look back to long you'll trip on your future. The future God has for you is far better than your past. We just have keep moving toward it. If you aren't moving forward in God's direction today is a great day to start.

This week I have two reasons to pause and look back. First, this Friday is my wedding anniversary; 16 years. I am blessed to have married such an amazing woman who has faithfully stood by my side both in ministry and in life. Our two kids are the amazing blessing our relationship has produced. Second, Friday is also our 4 year anniversary at Central. We know where we've been and we know where we are going and I am truly excited about what the future holds.

Let me encourage you to join us for Prayer & Praise this Wednesday night at 6:30 p.m. I promise you will be encouraged and blessed.

Have a GREAT week!

Moments With God

2010-09-20T07:59:00.000-07:00

Exodus 33:13 ....teach me your ways so I may know you.....(NIV)

These were words spoken by Moses after years in the dessert with the children of Israel, God's chosen people. Following the story of Moses life through scripture takes some determination. There were moments where we would say he was on top of the world, things were going good. But if you read long enough you would also notice that things didn't always stay good. His life was filled with frustration, physical & spiritual attacks from their enemies as well as his own people, lack of food, abundance of food, blessing & curses.

But woven into the journey of Moses was his deep desire to know God. Remember that this is early on, pre-Jesus, pre-New Testament, this was long before most of scripture was penned. But that didn't stop Moses desire to truly know the God he was following. He regularly shared moments with God where God poured very deeply into his soul.

Unlike Moses, we have the completed, God-inspired, infallible Word of God to help us know and understand God. And in addition, when Jesus died on the cross and rose again he tore down every barrier that could separate us from an intimate verbal relationship with our God. With those two things in place for us, how often do we take advantage of them? I've found that the most significant and productive times of my day are the planned & unplanned moments I spend with God. I plan to read his Word, to worship him with a song or two, I plan to talk with him through prayer. It's those moments that cause me to know him better and understand his plans for me. It's also the unplanned; those moments when the Holy Spirit just ambushes me in my office, in my car, our when I'm out and about town.

It's hugely important to plan moments with God, but it's also important to allow the Holy Spirit to ambush you in the midst of your day. Would you be willing to plan some moments with God? Five, ten, fifteen intentional minutes with him either reading his Word or talking to him? I promise those moments will become the most valuable of your day!

Baby Steps

2010-09-13T13:16:00.000-07:00

I have always enjoyed being around and playing with babies. Nothing brightens a day like the smile of a child. The only thing better than that is when they finally stand on those chubby legs and wobble around in their maiden attempt to walk. We often refer to them as baby steps. I always joke that Lauren never walked. She stood up and began running; running in to the coffee table, running into the stove...you get the idea.

Yesterday I enjoyed the opportunity to share my heart about what God was doing in me this past summer as well as what he has in store for us. If you weren't able to be in service with us, I would consider it mandatory to listen to that message so you can know why we will be taking the intentional steps presented in future weeks and months. If you were here yesterday, don't hesitate to listen to the message again. It's just impossible to retain everything we hear verbally. Regardless of our church heritage or your personal age I believe the baby steps we take in upcoming weeks & months will prove to be a significant turning point for Central. Why would we consider them baby steps? Because they are the elementary steps that must be taken for a church to grow, be healthy, and fulfill it's purpose.

As I shared yesterday, our first steps are prayer. Prayer is the only thing God promised to respond to and answer. Unfortunately it's the thing we do the least; except for when we want something from God. The type of prayer I'm talking about is when we pray because of our love for God. Not for what he can give us but just to get close to him and express our hearts to him. So the opportunity to pray is available. Starting this Wednesday night (and every Wednesday night) we are having a Prayer & Praise service in the sanctuary at 6:30 p.m. Even though we won't have kids ministry available on Wednesday nights until the beginning of October (3-weeks) parents can take turns alternating to attend the prayer time while one parent stays home.

If you haven't already, I also want you to pick up a copy of the book Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire by Jim Cymbala for $10 in the lobby. This book will powerfully stretch your mind and build up your faith to what God can and is willing to do when his people pray.

Will you join me in taking some baby steps toward God?

Don't Miss This Sunday!!!

2010-09-08T11:45:00.000-07:00

No matter where you've been for the past 3 months, you don't want to miss this next Sunday! I am looking forward to sharing the experience & my thoughts from the 30 day sabbatical Tricia and I took in July & August. It proved to be a powerful time spiritually for us as well as a great opportunity for God to have our complete attention. So at this upcoming service I am going to share what I wholeheartedly believe are the action steps God wants us to take as a church. It will probably be surprising just how simple these steps are, yet they are vitally important.

So lock up the cabin, set the Tivo to record the football game, and don't put the roast in the Crockpot too early because this Sunday is going to be a very powerful service. Let me pray for you today......

"Father, I believe you are preparing Central for something big. But for that to happen you will begin by preparing us individually & as a church family. I ask that you prepare our hearts for this Sunday, the worship, the message, and our response. We pray for your will to be done in us and in our city! In Jesus name.....AMEN!"

Who Is My Source?

2010-08-16T06:50:00.000-07:00

It was a joy to be back at Central yesterday. Let me just challenge you again as you start this week with the last point of my message yesterday. What is filling up that God-shaped hole in your life? What are you trying to fit in there in an attempt to gain affirmation, joy, peace, love, acceptance, forgiveness, hope, or life? Alcoholics are looking for it. Drug addicts are searching for it. Even middle class soccer moms are trying to fill that void with something. Who is your source?

Things can never fill that void; it's a person. Only God can fill that whole because he is the only puzzle piece that fits. If you're single, you're not going to feel complete just because you get married. If your married and you're waiting for your spouse to complete you spiritually and emotionally, unfortunately, it's just not going to happen that way. Real hope, real life, real joy, and real fulfillment only comes from one place; God! What is your source today? Tap into a new source this week!

"Lord, we claim you as our source today. We need your affirmation this week. Whisper into our hearts just how much you love us and how valuable we are to you. AMEN!"

***Note: Here are the links to the two devotional books I mentioned yesterday in service.

Evaluate

2010-08-03T08:58:00.000-07:00

Day 22

The past 22 day have given me a lot of time to think. This is going to be a short blog today because it's really going to be finished by you. Let me give you a few questions to ask yourself then you complete it for me.

5 years ago, where did you expect yourself to be today?

What do you hate most about your life right now? Be specific.

What do you love most about your life right now? (Not spouse or kids)

Where do you see yourself physically & spiritually 5 years from today?

If you can ask and answer these questions within the context of understanding God has plans for your life, you just might be able to reach your God-potential. If you aren't where you expected to be 5 years ago, then why not? What do you need to change?

The Packers began training camp this week. The winner of the Superbowl is being decided right now. It's all decided in the planning stages and the preparation. It's often the smallest decisions we make that launch us toward achieving the final goal.

Think about that today....

Blessed

2010-07-29T18:16:00.000-07:00

Day 17

Sorry I missed several days. I was just far enough from civilization that there was no suitable internet connection.

We've taken the last several days to connect with family, pastor's, and mentor's. I spent a few hours this past Sunday evening going through a box of family pictures my mom had put together. We laughed, a lot! I especially enjoyed laughing at photos of my brother. He laughed at plenty of mine as well. I also came across a picture of my dad on on a Christmas morning from years ago......let's just say "blackmail" came to mind. And right now, I'm in the middle of four days with just Tricia (kids are at their grandparents - Thanks Mom & Dad!).

I guess the best way I can express how I have felt the past several days is blessed. A few months ago I preached a few messages on "How To Be Rich". I outlined how statistically we are the richest people, in the richest country in the world. I just heard someone the other day mention that our country only represents 5% of the worlds population, yet we account for 50% of the world's wealth. We're busy trying to figure out how to get rich when in reality we already are. We simply don't know what it means to be blessed. We believe a blessed life is just around the corner where a raise, better car, or a better marriage is at.

I AM BLESSED! I am loved by my heavenly Father, who looks beyond my faults and finds my life redeemable. I am loved by a woman who sees through my imperfections, quirks, and fears. Our marriage has not been perfect (none are!), but everyday I realize just how much I am willing to fight to keep it. I am loved by by two kids who run to meet me at the door to squeeze and hug me everyday when I come home.

On a weekly basis I'm known by many names; Mark, Honey, Daddy, Pastor Mark, Dude, Buddy, and even the occasional Father Mark (even though I'm not Catholic). But the name I should be best known by is BLESSED.

Faith; No More, No Less...

2010-07-21T12:33:00.000-07:00

Day 9

You may have noticed I didn't write anything on Day 8...I skipped a day...you'll get over it ;-). As part of the journey I am reading the New Testament over 30 days. I often change versions of the Bible for a period of time just to get fresh perspective. As I'm reading through the N.T., this time I am using the Message Bible. It is not a literal translation, but is instead a paraphrase version. Which means someone read the original scriptural manuscripts and paraphrased it in simple English. I wouldn't conclude doctrine from a paraphrase version, but it certainly is insightful as the Holy Spirit uses it to allow us to view scripture in a fresh, new way. All that said, I read a verse in Luke 17 today that make me think & research. Read it below.

Luke 17 (The Message Bible)
⁵The apostles (disciples) came up and said to the Master (Jesus), "Give us more faith."⁶But the Master said, "You don't need more faith. There is no 'more' or 'less' in faith. If you have a bare kernel of faith, say the size of a poppy seed, you could say to this sycamore tree, 'Go jump in the lake,' and it would do it.

Let me clarify a few things. First, Romans 12:3 tells us that God has given each Christian a measure of faith. Second, Paul says in 2 Thessalonians 1:3 that he is proud of Thessalonian church because their faith is growing more and more. So we've established that God gives us faith and that our faith can grow. I felt it important to clarify that because some might read these versed from the Message Bible as a contradiction, when in fact they're not really talking about this.

Evaluate the disciples requests; they are saying to Jesus "give us more faith." And the simplified version of Jesus response is (my paraphrased version of a paraphrased version, are you confused yet?), "More faith? Take what you have, even if your faith is as small as a mustard seed, and use it! That much faith can move a mountain if you just use it."

Now let me share how this verse struck me. Have you ever prayed for more faith? Me too. But in my research of scriptures so far, I haven't found where we are encouraged to "pray for faith." I did a word search in the New International Version of the Bible (considered by Bible scholars to be the most accurate translation of the original transcripts) and the word faith appears 256 times. I read all 265 verses and not once did it say that we should "pray for faith." I found that interesting since I've been doing it for at least 20 years. If Jesus hadn't been present, basically the disciples would have been praying for more faith. It was their cop-out. "If only we had more faith we could do amazing things for you Jesus." Jesus was saying, "Look, faith is not an excuse. If you have as much as a grain of mustard seed, you've got enough. Now step out and use the faith you have, then when you begin to see me move mountains in your life, your faith will grow! Then you'll have more faith!"

Stop praying for faith....stop thinking that when you get "enough" faith you will start doing something for God....just start using (exercising) the measure of faith you have right now and watch how God's faithfulness explodes in your life.....then the end result will be more faith.

Think about it!

TALK affects WALK

2010-07-19T14:40:00.000-07:00

Day 7

What you say and think matters! Did you realize that what you say sets the course for who you will become and what you think will substantially affect your final destination? I can't stand being around negative people. I love them, but they drain me. Let's face it, everyone has a day where things don't seem so bright and we hit that negative streak. But when our words and thoughts continuously focus on the negative, you can be assured, the negative will happen in our lives. If you look for the negative, you will always find it! What's disappointing is that the entire time you are focusing on the negative, the positive is ALL around you! If we would just focus on the positive, we would experience the positive.

Now I'm not saying the negative will disappear and nothing bad will happen to you. But you'll begin to notice just how much good is in your life as well.

Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. (NKJV)

Proverbs 4:23 Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life. (NCV)

This OR That

2010-07-18T15:30:00.000-07:00

Day 6

This morning we attended a church (not in Green Bay for those wondering) and sat in on their service. I've found that going to another church and taking in the "guest experience" is fun. You really get to see how someone else does it and glean ideas about how your church can improve. I guess if everyone were evaluating this same church we'd all come up with both specific and different parts that stood out to us. For me I tend to look at a few things typically. The building was clean, up to date, and contemporary. The sanctuary had great stage effect, lighting, and sound. And when we dropped Lauren off for kids church it was a pretty cool space. Plus, she came out really excited about her service and talking about everything. The worship music was good, the announcements were a little long (at least 10 minutes), but the preaching was good. This church has multiple services and services a lot of families each week. All-in-all, it was a positive experience at a good church. A good service, at a good church.

But...it was missing something. Do you know what I'm talking about? It's hard to even say it without sounding spiritually judgmental, but you go, you attend and you now there is something missing! There must be more!! In the past I've coveted facilities like that. And yes I did use the word covet (I know it's a sin, I've confessed it and I'm forgiven ;-). Even recently I've wanted nicer space, better designed, better equipment, lighting, sound, etc. And to be clear, there is nothing wrong with any of those components or having them in your church. But as I sat at lunch today, as I talked with Tricia I made a statement that came from the depths of my soul. Here's what I said, "If I had to choose between that facility and all it's amenities OR a Holy Ghost -driven, powerful move of God; I'd choose the later. I know that would seem to be the obvious choice but some days based on my actions, that's not what I pick. I want a move of God in me, my city, and my church so bad I would give up every other request to get it.

What about you? If you aren't experiencing that type of powerful move of God in your personal life do you know what that means? It means you chose the other thing instead! Your other thing might be more money, bigger house, nicer car, more toys, kids sports; you fill in the blank! But you chose it; OVER God! Why can I say this so boldly? Because I've done it too. I'm ashamed of the times I've done it; missing out on God's best. But not anymore! Today is a new day and I've made my choice. I know I'll fail again, but still I choose to start down a new road in pursuit of an awesome God. He promised that if I would seek Him, I would find Him. I plan to prove Him right! How about you?

The Root Issue

2010-07-17T11:12:00.000-07:00

Day 5

This morning I mowed the grass for the second time this week; combination of much needed rain and great sunshine! Jonathan's been helping out this summer by running the riding mower and cutting about 2/3's of the lawn. That's a big help. Today while he was mowing I started pulling weeds around some of our landscaping. I hate weeds. Seems like they always grow faster than the grass...it's just silly. When I pulled those weeds I noticed that the roots below ground were often longer than the height of the week above ground. It's not something I just noticed, but it always surprises me. Sometimes I don't get the whole root out but accidentally only tear the top off the weed. Which means I'll be pulling those again.

If your not bored to sleep just yet you're probably wondering, "What the heck are you talking about! I don't want to hear about your weeds!" Here's the point. In almost 16 years of ministry & counseling I've met with hundreds of people who've had problems of many kinds. Most of the time, the problem they tell you about isn't really the main problem. It's just a symptom of a deeper root issue. The current problem is what you see now, but the heart of the issue goes much deeper. Most people will deal with those same problems for 10, 20, 30 years or even longer because they aren't willing to deal with the root issue. That's work. That means we have to become vulnerable.

What is a problem you've been dealing with for a while now? You usually only try to treat the symptoms and it may go away for a while but it always pops back up. Isn't it time to get to the root issue? Is it an abuse from childhood that's affecting your marriage today? Is it low self-esteem from a hurtful relationship or former marriage that wrecks any friendship or relationship today? What is the root issue for your problem? Stop ignoring it. It's as obvious to everyone else as a lone dandelion in a plush green yard. Get to the root of your issue....let God heal you.

"LORD, I've got issues from my past that are still popping up in my life today. Help me deal with them. Help me get to the root of the issue and find healing in you today. AMEN!"

Faith, NOT Feelings

2010-07-16T08:53:00.000-07:00

Day 4

It's easy to be happy and live for God when feel like we are close to God and God is close to us. But what about those times when it feels like God is a million miles away. We haven't stopped praying, or reading his Word, or even living for his purpose; it's just that we don't feel God the same way.

Rick Warren gave a great example of this when he wrote, "When you are a baby Christian, God gives you a lot of confirming emotions and often answers the most immature, self-centered prayers—so you'll know he exists. But as you grow in faith, he will wean you of these dependencies. Yes, he wants you to sense his presence, but he's more concerned that you trust him than that you feel him."

This happened to Job. In one day he lost everything - family, possessions, and health. What did he do? He cried out to God! And for 37 chapters God said nothing. We know how the story ends so we often overlook the emotion of those 37 chapters. Where did Job's faith grow most? After God answered and restored everything, or during those 37 chapters where God was quiet and all Job had to hold onto was his faith in a God?

If you know me at all you know I am an openly emotional guy. But I am learning that I can't allow my feelings or emotions to be the gauge of God's work in me. He is most pleased when my relationship with him is based on the faith (the facts his Word declares & His promises) instead of my feelings. Do I still feel God?...Yes, and I pray I continue to. But feeling him is no longer my pursuit; knowing him through faith is far more fulfilling. It's that type of faith that pleases God.

"LORD, teach me to trust your Word and establish my faith upon it regardless of how I feel. Teach me to rest in your truth. I don't just want to feel you, I want to know you!....AMEN!"

Filter Peoples Advice...

2010-07-15T10:27:00.000-07:00

Day 3

Have you notice that everyone seems to think they have the answers for your life? When you share your problem or even when you don't there is often a line of people who are prepared to tell you what you need to do and how you need to do it! One comment I hear often that drives me crazy is, "I know exactly how you feel!", or "I went through that exact same thing!" When someone says that to me it makes me want to grab them around the neck and say, "No you don't!!! Your situation may have been similar but not exactly the same!" For those of you who've caught yourself saying that to someone, let me tell you what the listener hears when you speak. "What you're going through is common. Why are you being such a whiner? It's just life!" In essence, you are disregarding something that is huge to them at the moment and in effect devaluing them and their feelings.

I can't tell you how many comments I got about how I should "do" this sabbatical. What to do and how to do it, what course to take and how it should look in the end. Now to be clear, I do believe that we should have people in our lives to speak into us, hold us accountable, and verbally invest in us. But there comes at time when the best person to do that is God. Even the best people will sometimes give you only advice filled with worldly logic instead of divine revelation.

When someone advises you, qualify their words through this filter. 1) Are they someone who reads their Bible regularly? 2) Are they someone who you know to wholeheartedly seek God in prayer. 3) Have you seen their personal decisions produce spiritual fruit? 4) Are the humble with you and with others? 5) Do they regularly exhibit a servants heart to others? 6) Does their advice COMPLETELY line up with God's Word and what God has already spoken to you through prayer? If you can't answer these questions with a "yes" be careful!

Matthew 23:8-10 (The Message Bible)
Don't set people up as experts over your life, letting them tell you what to do. Save that authority for God; let him tell you what to do. No one else should carry the title of 'Father'; you have only one Father, and he's in heaven. And don't let people maneuver you into taking charge of them. There is only one Life-Leader for you and them—Christ.

How do you know.....?

2010-07-14T09:50:00.000-07:00

Day 2

Yesterday we started doing something new in our family. We've always prayed together but we've never really done some sort of family devotional together. So we started yesterday using a book called Dinner Table Devotions. The daily reading for July 13th was about healing and how God is a healing God. It only took about 5-7 minutes then we prayed together. It was a very positive thing and I'm glad we started to it. I encourage other families to make the time for something like this as well.

What was funny was the question afterward. We've noticed that Lauren is our "question girl". Remember the devotion was on healing, but her question was not. Sitting next to me on the couch she looked right up at me with those big brown eyes and said, "How do you know when God talks to you?" Would anyone like to take a shot at answering that one?

How many other people have ever asked that question? I have. My easy explanation to Lauren was to give her an example....like when she does something wrong and that voice in her heart tells her she shouldn't have done that, or that she should apologize; that's God speaking to her heart. She then proceeded to explain to me how that really does happen for her and how important it is to her. Wow!

What about for us adults? How do we know when God is speaking to us? Let me give you the most simple explanation I have to help you know when you are hearing God speak to you. 1) Usually what he says isn't what we want to hear! God's answers always go against our logic. My selfish nature always wants God to do things my way. I even rationalize out why God should do things my way, but he never does. His voice cuts through my logic. 2) When God speaks to us his words always support His Word. If you think God is speaking to you, check it against the Bible. A revelation Word from God will never contradict his written Word. If it does, you didn't hear from God. Check EVERYTHING against His written Word!!! 3) When God speaks instruction or revelation to us the end result should be the glorification of God NOT ourselves! God does not have an ego problem, but he will not take second place. I hear people often say, "God told me to do (blah-fill in the blank)". And when reviewed it's selfish, self-honoring, and lifts up the individual not God. God's instruction steers us and others toward Him.

Journey on.......

A Child's Honest Question

2010-07-13T06:26:00.000-07:00

Day 1

Let me set the scene. I'm sitting in my living room; just finished my devotional and starting my daily Bible reading. Jonathan is sitting on the couch reading day 4 of his journey through the Gospels in 30 days on his iPod using YouVersion. Lauren is sitting next to him reading her own Bible. Then it happened.....one of those moments that makes you both laugh and cry. She turns to Jonathan and asks, "Is the Bible real? Did this stuff really happen?" She was dead honest.

I thought about how honest and sweet the questions of a child are. The beginning of faith really starts with the question my daughter asked. God loves that question. He loves to answer it and prove just how real he is. He loves to show up in our everyday lives and prove that no matter what the world says about his existence, he is real and HE IS GOD!

"LORD, show me today just how real you are and how much you love me. AMEN!"

Excited & Anxious

2010-07-12T06:29:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I shared that Tricia and I will be taking the next 30 days as a time of sabbatical; fasting, prayer, healing, refreshing, and renewal. It's something I am both excited and anxious about at the same time. It's exciting because I know it's an act of obedience and anxious because there is now way to know all that God is going to do. But when you really think about it, many of the great things in life bring these same emotions. Think of Christmas morning when kids are so excited to open those presents but partnered with it are those anxious feelings of not knowing what inside those wrapped boxes.

I don't know what's in the spiritual boxes God's placed in front of us, but I am excited. And I know my anxiety will subside as well because I know my God only gives good gifts. The spiritual refreshing, direction, and blessing that is to come will be better than I could ever imagine. It's all part of the spiritual journey everyone of us travel in our walk with God.

Embrace the journey! Over the next 30-days fast a few meals per week, spend more time talking with God in prayer, and open up the Bible and see what it has to say. Try reading the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John) over the next 30-days. Just 3 chapters per day and you will get a full picture of Jesus life and example for each of us and read through all 4 books of the Bible.

Tricia and I appreciate your support and prayers during this season of refreshing. We love pastoring the Central family and we look forward to the explosion of God's favor and blessing that is to come.

Have a great week!

Independence Day

2010-06-28T06:26:00.000-07:00

On Sunday, we will celebrate the birthday of our country with July 4th celebrations all over the country. 234 years ago our founding fathers signed their names to the Declaration of Independence, the written edict declaring to Britain our decision to break free from tyranny in pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness. Those same founding fathers understood that life, liberty, and happiness wasn't something to be found in ourselves, but in the Creator who holds each of those things in His hands.

In 2010, have you truly achieved life, liberty, and happiness? If we evaluate the human condition in America, I believe most people have traded life for a living, liberty for cultural slavery, and happiness for temporary stuff. It's a clear sign that we've not only chosen independence from Britain but from God. Even though we achieved freedom from tyranny in 1776, I'm not so sure we are any more free today. We strain for freedom but true freedom is only found in the Creator. Galatians 5:1 says, "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." (NIV) The principles of this verse are clear.

1) Only Christ can set us free.
2) Once free, he intends for us to stay free!
3) No matter what, DON'T GO BACK TO SLAVERY!

What is still enslaving you? Fear? Failure? Past Hurts? Whatever it may be, make today your spiritual Independence Day! Christ has already done everything needed for you to have freedom. Ask him for it, receive it, walk in it, and never go back to slavery!!!

Have a great week!

Letting Go

2010-06-01T05:39:00.000-07:00

I've really enjoyed the past 5 weeks and our parenting series "Every Kid Needs...." Parenting is the most exciting, fulfilling, and difficult job a person will ever do. But It's also a tremendous blessing when done well. I encourage every parent to continue to work on your parenting skills and seek out resources to will equip you better. It's a job I want to be successful at; I encourage you to do your best as well. One book I read while preparing this series of messages was "Kid CEO" by Ed Young. This proved to be a great resource and I encourage parents to give it a read. As always, if you want to listen to one or all of the messages in this series again, just go to www.centralassembly.net and you can listen for free. Below is the beginning to a series of articles by Dr. James Dobson about how to release your teenage kids into adulthood. Click HERE for more articles on this topic. Have a GREAT week!!!

The most common mistake made by parents of older teenagers (16 to 19 years of age) is refusing to grant them the independence and maturity they require. Our inclination as loving guardians is to hold our kids too tightly, despite their attempts to squirm free. We try to make all their decisions, keep them snugly beneath our wings, and prevent even the possibility of failure.

And in so doing, we force our young adults into one of two destructive patterns: Either they passively accept our over protection and remain dependent "children" into adult life or they rise up in great wrath to reject our bondage and interference. They lose on both counts. On the one hand they become emotional cripples who are incapable of independent thought, and on the other they grow into angry, guilt-ridden adults who have severed ties with the family they need. Indeed, parents who refuse to grant appropriate independence to their older adolescents are courting disaster not only for their children but also for themselves.

Click HERE for more articles on this topic.

Family Time

2010-05-24T05:27:00.000-07:00

I hope you enjoy this article about how to create some intentional and creative family time. If you would like to read some other articles related to developing family time, click HERE. Have a great week!

My wife, Cathy, and I stared at each other in disbelief as our oldest daughter, Christy, told us she was running away. When she started packing her suitcase, we knew she was serious. Cathy and I weren't sure if we should laugh or cry — after all, Christy was only 6.

Our daughter told us she was moving to Julia's house across the street because her mommy and daddy were nicer. My wife called Julia's mother to tell her what was taking place and that Christy was on her way over. Then, we stood on our sidewalk and watched our little girl carry her suitcase and favorite doll across the street where Julia's mother waited outside the door to greet her.

A few hours later, Julia's mom reminded Christy it was Monday night and that our family always went to the Golden Spoon for frozen yogurt after dinner. It was a tradition my three girls looked forward to — including Christy. To our delight, she called and asked if she could go. It was a joyous reunion!

The weekly yogurt run was part of our family identity — part of what made us who we were. Even the neighbors knew our routine and sometimes shouted to-go orders as we pulled out of our driveway. Our three daughters are now grown, but when our family gets together, we still make trips to the Golden Spoon. It's one of those simple traditions that have kept our family bonds strong.

Not surprisingly, a strong family identity also helps children develop a strong and healthy self-identity. Knowing what makes their family unique — traditions, values, ways of relating to one another — gives children a clear starting point for discovering their own place in the world. Studies even show that kids who identify with their family's values tend to be less promiscuous and face less risk of drug and alcohol abuse.

Perhaps you're wondering, How can we build a strong family identity? Here are three principles to get you started.

Your presence matters. Children regard your presence as a sign of care and connectedness. Families who eat meals together, play together and build traditions together thrive. Does your family eat together at least four times a week? If so, there is a greater chance your kids will perform better in school and be less likely to exhibit negative behavior.

Although it may seem trite, a family that plays together, stays together. I'm not talking about just cheering on your kids at soccer games or dance recitals but actually playing together. One family I know has a pingpong tournament each week. The winner doesn't have to do the dishes for a day. Our family had a Fun Day once a month. One of the girls picked an activity, and the rest of the family participated.

Celebrate everything. Don't miss a single chance to celebrate your family. You can celebrate rites of passage and other events such as Little League victories and graduations — from any grade

On birthdays, we go out to dinner then play a game called Affirmation Bombardment, in which each family member shares three words of encouragement for the birthday person.

Talk about faith. Spiritual topics don't always come naturally for families. Discussions about God, however, can help build family identity. They also help kids have strong convictions as they get older.

Maybe you have some anxiety about starting a faith conversation with your children. Remember, your talk doesn't have to be forced or lengthy; it can be simple, short and spontaneous. Let the discussion be as natural as possible. Getting preachy with your children can be just as unhelpful as avoiding the topic of faith.

One way to create opportunities to share your faith with your kids is to pray with them every day and do a weekly family devotional, even if only for five minutes. When your children are exposed to God's truth in small amounts, it can, as a friend of mine says, "help them develop a sweet tooth for Jesus."

Jesus said, "Everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock" (Matthew 7:24-25).

This truth applies to families. At some point, storms will come to every family. But when you proactively build a strong family identity on the rock of Christ, your family can withstand whatever winds and rains come your way. A strong family identity will give your kids a solid foundation to cling to during those difficult times.

Creative Discipline Ideas

2010-05-17T09:57:00.000-07:00

Disciplining our children is one of the hardest things to do, and more importantly; do well! The following is an opening piece to an article written by Lisa Whelchel. Lisa is the author of the book Creative Discipline. Enjoy this opening article and click here to find more helpful discipline tips. Have a GREAT week!

As you well know, the parenting adventure is different with each child — and it's vital to recognize and adapt to your children's various temperaments, strengths, and weaknesses. Think of yourself as a sculptor shaping and molding the lives of your young ones. With each child, you may be working with a different medium. You could be endeavoring to form one youngster who appears to be as hard as marble. As an artist, you might use a chisel, hammers, even water, while sculpting your masterpiece. You may have another child who is more pliable, like clay. Even then, as a potter, you might use fire, a knife, and your bare hands.

It doesn't matter what substance you're working with, be it wood, ice, bronze, wax, sand, steel, or foam. Each raw material requires a distinct combination of tools to strike the balance between respecting its uniqueness and steadfastly pursuing the potential beauty within.

In the following articles, I will present different tools and creative ways to use them as we allow the Lord to work through us, shaping our children in His image (see Colossians 3:10). You'll see, there's no reason discipline has to be boring!

Experiment. If one idea doesn't work, try something else and come at it from another direction. But don't dismiss a failed method altogether; it may work on another child or at another stage of childhood. Believe me, your departure from the ordinary ways of correction will keep your kids on their toes, wondering what you'll next pull out of your bag of tricks. The road is long, but it doesn't have to be dull.

Click HERE to read more from Lisa Whelchel on Creative Discipline Ideas.

Cultural Influences

2010-05-10T07:37:00.000-07:00

Link to the entire article....

When my children were toddlers, I installed childproof latches on all the cabinets and drawers within their grasp to keep them from ingesting dangerous substances. During the grade school years, I zealously guarded the shows they watched to make sure they didn't pollute their young minds.

When my girls reached their teen years, I realized that health and intellect weren't the only areas that needed protection. Spiritual dangers lurked in humanistic curricula, dehumanizing music and peer pressure. But how could I create a safe environment that encouraged rather than undermined their spiritual growth?

None of my daughters seemed interested in joining a convent, so I began asking the Lord for wisdom. He reminded me that where sin abounds, grace abounds even more (Romans 5:20). And He taught me that knowledge is a powerful weapon in spiritual realms.

Know your kids

Play with them, and pray with them. By careful observation, you can discern their spiritual gifts and subtle character flaws. Are they leaders or followers? Confident or insecure? This knowledge is essential as you determine what environments and relationships are helpful — or harmful — to their spiritual growth. Every child is different, and what's helpful for one is not necessarily the best for another.

For example, my youngest daughter wrestled with peer pressure when she was in high school. Candyce loved Jesus but made bad choices when peer pressure was too great. Her dad and I had to monitor her choices carefully.

Her older sister Danielle, on the other hand, never wavered in her faith — or her actions — when pressured by friends. Her beliefs were tested in the classroom. Knowing this, I made sure we had lots of discussions about issues that confused her. Her dad and I were able to be sounding boards as she learned to sift through truth and error.

Know their hangouts

Where do your kids spend the majority of their time? At school? The mall? Sports practice? Youth group activities? How familiar are you with their stomping grounds?

When my girls were in junior high and high school, they decided to start a Christian punk rock band. When they actually began booking shows, I was a little concerned about the venues — not to mention the clientele who would attend their concerts. So I went undercover and became their manager. I learned a lot about my daughters, their friends and the alternative music culture, which helped me to make informed decisions about concerts and parties they wanted to attend.

Here's an important safety tip: Just because a place — be it a school, concert, coffee house — has the adjective Christian somewhere in its name, that doesn't mean it's going to benefit your child's faith. My oldest daughter, Lindsay, attended a respected Christian high school and graduated with honors. She recently told me, however, that she found it more faith-numbing than faith-inspiring. Sure, some of the students were walking out their relationships with Christ, but in Lindsay's opinion, the majority of her peers had learned the fine art of schmoozing. They lived double lives and invited her to do the same.

There are no hard rules by which to measure the spiritual influence of any given place. Lindsay now works in the secular music industry. That spiritual environment is sketchy at best, but I've seen Lindsay's faith grow as she's been constantly challenged. Most days, she shines like a star "in a crooked and depraved generation" (Philippians 2:15). She's figuring out how to keep the faith in a godless arena.

The only foolproof way to know if an environment is going to be a help or hazard is to check it out yourself. Watch how your kids respond to the pressures around them. Volunteer at school and get to know their teachers and coaches. Help with the youth group or take your kids to see their favorite band in concert.

Know their friends

As Eddie Haskell so humorously illustrated in the "Leave It to Beaver" series, sometimes the veneer of respectability can overlay the heart of a rascal. Short of hiring a private detective to tail our kids' buddies, how do we know what kind of effect they have on our children?

"Since I spend a lot of time driving my younger teens and their friends to various events, I use that car time as a way to get to know their friends," says Jill, a mother of three sons. "I try to ask questions about their families and interests. You can learn a lot about a kid's character if you are paying attention."

Parents can also get a clue about their children's friends by regularly reading comments on their blogs and MySpace accounts. Don't hesitate to check out their friends' profiles. You might feel as though you are eavesdropping, but the reality is that unless MySpace profiles are set to private, all that information is for public display.

Create an open atmosphere in your home, making it a safe haven for your kids and their friends. Encourage honest, lively discussions where young minds can express themselves without the fear of being judged. Our girls — and their friends — have learned that even if we don't agree on every issue, we will treat them with respect. Faith is built when there's freedom to speak frankly and wrestle with tough subjects — even if it makes us wince.

When it comes to assessing the spiritual impact of any environment on our kids, knowledge is power. Know your children, know their hangouts and know their friends. Empowered by this knowledge, you can help your kids keep the faith. And maybe you'll even keep your sanity.

Parenting: Character Development

2010-05-03T06:47:00.000-07:00

For the month of May I want to use SoulFood to resource parents with more ideas and input about what "Every Kid Needs...." I will share resources not original to me but great nonetheless. This week enjoy an article from
Focus On The Family about how to help your kids develop character. Enjoy!

Do you remember Pinocchio, the little wooden boy carved from a piece of pine by the woodcarver, Geppetto? Even though Pinocchio dream of becoming a real boy, there was very little real about him – except that he had a nasty habit of lying. Whenever he lied, his nose grew. If he told a whopper, it grew very long, while a little white lie caused only a little growth.

According to Dr. Chuck Borsellino, the author of Pinocchio Parenting, many adults suffer from Pinocchio's problem. No, they're not blatant liars, and their noses don't grow, but they use false clichés to teach their kids, which can be problematic.

Before you think you couldn't possibly be a "Pinocchio Parent," check out these four common lies that adults tell their children. While people may repeat these untruths at any time, I've broken them down by ages and stages for extra insight.

Early Stages (0-3)

"Yes, Honey, there is a Santa Claus."

During the Christmas holidays, tiny tots all over the United States gather in shopping malls to sit on Santa's lap. Soon, with a little coaching from Mom and Dad, our littlest citizens believe in the magic man in the red hat and long, white flowing beard.

You might be thinking, OK, wait a minute! What's wrong with Santa? He is part of the magic of Christmas. Granted, many people agree that there isn't anything wrong with St. Nick, including Dr. Dobson, the founder of Focus on the Family. "I wouldn't take that away from early childhood. My kids loved Santa."

While Dr. Borsellino agrees with Dobson that play and fantasy are a fun part of childhood, the main lesson parents should glean from Santa is to be "careful telling your kids anything that you'll have to un-tell them later."

Discovery Years (ages 4-7)

"What's on the inside is what matters."

The first time that Julia came home from middle school crying because her classmates ridiculed her about her "elephant-size" ears, her mother tried to comfort her by saying, "Sweetheart, it's what's on the inside that matters."

While this sounds like a good argument because what's on the inside does matter to God, the truth is that we in the United States have a beauty bias. And, according to Borsellino, "We lie [to our kids] when we don't face that."

What can a parent do when teens, especially girls, are demoralized by the world's message that you don't matter if you don't look like a movie star? While a parent does not want to emphasize outward appearances, Borsellino believes parents should teach kids to make the most of what God gave them. "If the barn door needs painting, paint it," he says. We should also eat healthy and exercise to take care of our bodies. Of course, making the most of our outward appearance should never be done at the expense of faith or character.

Tween Ages (ages 8-12)

"The best things in life are free."

When your children start to grow, it's natural for you to want to teach them to be grateful. You want them to value the little things in life, right? For this reason, just about every parent tells their kids, "The best things in life are free."

While this may sound good, the question is this: when is the last time you really valued something that was free? It's probably been a long time, or it may have never happened. The truth is that anything that is worth something costs something. It costs courage, dedication, money, sacrifice or relational commitment.

The college graduate who studied for years will tell you they value their diploma. The husband and wife who have worked their way out of a deep marital ditch will tell you that a healthy marriage isn't free. The young pastor who works two jobs to keep his congregation afloat will say that it costs dedication.

So you see, the truth is that the best things in life aren't free, and according to Dr. Borsellino, "Whatever you earn cheaply, you will also value to the same degree." No doubt, this is a great truth to teach your kids.

Teen Phases (ages 13-18)

"You can be anything you want to be."

When parents want to encourage their teens about finding a career they often say, "You can be anything you want to be." Is it a lie? Absolutely.

"The truth is, if you're 4'9," says Borsellino, "you can't play in the NBA."It is also true that we have more opportunities in the United States than just about anywhere else in the world, but no one can be whatever they want. A skilled engineer will probably go crazy trying to write a book, and an artist would most likely go bananas if she had to crunch numbers for a living. Yes, God has given everyone gifts, but no one has every gift.

Rather than tell kids they can be whatever they want, Dr. Borsellino suggests that parents ask themselves, "What kind of gifts and talents can I fertilize in my children?" In other words, how can I encourage growth of the particular gifts, talents and bents that God has placed in each of my children? Parents should also teach their kids to strive for excellence by doing their best with whatever skills and talents God has given them.

Most importantly, Borsellino wants his readers to know that the most dangerous lie is not one we tell our kids, but the one we tell ourselves. It's when we say, "I don’t matter." No doubt, this lie will rob parents who believe it of their ability to parent effectively.

The greatest proof that we do matter is the cross. Through Christ's act of unconditional love, God said, "You mean the world to me, even if the world says you don't matter." Not only is this one of the greatest truths that parents should embrace, but it's one they can share with their children, at any age or stage.

Traveler or Follower?

2010-04-26T03:25:00.000-07:00

Luke 14:25-34

Yesterday, Pastor Aaron drove it home with his message "Traveler or Follower." It's funny how some information can shock you for a moment but once processed you really already knew it was true. That's how I felt about the George Barna statistic he shared. The report showed that approximately 82% of American's claim to be Christians. Barna then broke that into 2 groups; Committed Christians 22%, and Casual Christians 60% (stats may be a little off - just like my memory). Committed Christians are those who are wholeheartedly commited to God, His commands, His Church, and His values. Casual Christians are committed to all those things, as long as it's convenient. The minute it's not convenient, they bolt on Christian values and do whatever they want yet still claim to be a Christian.

This is probably the most frustrating thing to me. As a pastor, how am I supposed to lead an individual, a group, a church toward God's plans when 75% of the group on average (based on the stat) is going to take off when it's no longer convenient? Either we have to become followers or we have to stop lying and just admit we aren't Christians at all!!!! There is no such thing as a part-time Christian. This doesn't mean we will live our lives perfect. But it does mean we live our lives committed! Instead of planning to bail on our faith, we plan to stay committed to it and all that's required of it. If all a Christian does is attend a weekly service, then that's not Christianity. God's Word shows us he requires much more of us than that. I go to Starbucks 3 or 4 times a week. So if my identity is based on attending something, then I'm a Starbuckian.

Jesus tells us that to be a follower takes an intentional decision to lay everything at his feet and make him the priority. It simply means that we love him more than anything. And that love is expressed in everything we do, say, how we act, and how we live! I encourage you to do exactly what Jesus taught us to do. Take up your cross and follow him!

The Persecuted Church

2010-04-19T07:06:00.000-07:00

Over the weekend I attended the Voice Of The Martyrs conference that we assisted in bringing to Green Bay, which First Assembly graciously hosted. Thank you First Assembly and Pastor Pat & Diane Green! To say the conference, it's speakers, and their message was life-changing is a complete understatement. In one day I heard stories of persecution from Ethiopia, Pakistan, China, and Israel. Everyday around the world our brother's and sister's in Christ are threatened, attacked, and murdered for their faith.

As American Christians we don't think about this much and we especially have a hard time associating with the thought of having our lives taken from us because of our faith in Jesus Christ. We tend to believe that the rest of the world lives the same way we do. But the truth is it doesn't! As Christians in America we are BLESSED!!! We have freedoms only imagined by others around the world. One young lady from China who spent 6 years in prison simply because she was a Christian made a statement that challenged me. She said that after being released from prison she came to the U.S. and while here went to a church service at a large church. After sitting in the service for just a few moments she leaned over to the pastor and said, "Is this heaven? This is what I imagined it would be like." She marveled at the freedom to worship in the open with no fear of attack or death.

I encourage you to remember persecuted Christians around the world. They are our spiritual family. And one day we will spend eternity in heaven together with them. Let's pray that God will lead, guide, direct, provide, and protect them as they stand for their faith in the face of real and imminent persecution.

For more information about the persecuted church and those who have lived to tell their story, visit the website for Voice Of The Martyrs as well as sign up for their newsletter to stay updated.

Follow The Leader

2010-04-11T19:31:00.000-07:00

Joshua 3:3-4
“When you see the Levitical priests carrying the Ark of the Covenant of the Lord your God, move out from your positions and follow them. Since you have never traveled this way before, they will guide you." (NLT)

I've found in life that you are in one of two positions; leader or follower. No matter how old you get, you will find yourself in one of these positions. And to be clear, it's ok to be either one. Sometimes we are the designated leader. It might be at work, in the social order of our city, our in our home. Other times we're positioned behind a leader, we aren't blazing the trail but follow someone who is.

Most people want to be the leader. Seldom do people volunteer to be the follower, but scripturally it takes both leaders and followers to accomplish the goals of the LORD. By ratio alone, there are typically more followers than leaders. The most common reasons why we struggle with following is an unwillingness to submit our selves to the leader, stubbornness, jealousy, or even pride. Show me someone who refuses to submit to authority and I'll show you someone who is still struggling to submit to God as well. Leaders and followers.

I love the context of this verse. Joshua is saying to the Israelites, "Listen, we are going to move forward, cross this river, and enter our promised land. But stick close! Follow the leaders because you've never been here before. If you do that, it's all going to be ok!" We have to be willing to admit at times that we've never been here before and we need to follow a God-appointed leader. When we refuse to follow the leader, God calls that rebellion!

This week, develop a new-found respect for leaders as well as followers. On any given day, we are one or the other. Understanding this positions us to walk in God's favor, blessing and will.

Paid In Full

2010-03-28T18:57:00.000-07:00

For Christians, we are just a few days from the most important holiday of our faith. More than a story on a page, more than a visual image, and more than an everyday event. This day, above all others, represents the essence of our faith, the foundation of our hope, and the anchor of our eternity.

When you think about Easter which part of the story do you find yourself focusing on? What about the scene in the garden or Jesus mock trial? Maybe it's his beating or his near death scourging. For others it's the image of Jesus carrying the cross up the long, uneven trail all the way to the top of Golgotha. And the most common image is that of the broken & beaten Jesus on the cross. All those images have a significant meaning to me, but that's not what comes to my mind first. It's in the image of the cross that I see something that shakes me to my core. There on either side of the cross; two others occupied by common thieves. Two men, familiar with sin, prone to wrong. They deserved their position on the cross, although they probably didn't deserve such a prominent death alongside the Messiah.

Why is that the image that stands out to me? Honestly, I find I have the most in common with them. At my worst, I'm as common a thief as they were. I often rob God by dishonoring his Word and his commands. I steal God's time and try to make it my own. I too find that too often I am familiar with sin and prone to wrong. Maybe you have found that to be true about yourself as well. I realized that if not for Jesus on that cross, my fate would have been the same as those two thieves. On that cross Jesus stamped my debt "Paid In Full." I didn't deserve it, but still he made it possible. The greatest day of my life was the day I accepted that payment for my sin.

My prayer is that we learn to remember such an important day more than just once per year. One way to do that is to share our experience with those we love. Enjoy the holiday and share it with others.

Bounce

2010-03-22T04:04:00.000-07:00

When most people step back and reflect on a series of weeks, months, or even years they typically see an up and down pattern. For a period of time it seems like we are up, things seem to be going our way, and overall we would classify that time in life as good. For other periods of time we may seem down, things don't seem to be going our way, and overall we would classify that time as bad. These highs and lows tend to be most expressed emotionally. While they can also have physically sign, even those tend to drive an emotional feeling. I like to call this bounce.

In this season of March Madness (college basketball) the simple physics of bouncing a basketball is probably the best example. It's pretty simple; the ball goes down, it bounces back up. Now repeat 371,000 times. No matter now many times the players bounce the ball it always comes back up. Where not surprised when the basketball hits the floor, nor are we surprised when it bounces back up. It's the key part of the process of playing, scoring, and winning.

Life is filled with bounce. Moments when life seems to be up and going great, others when it seems to be down and out. But these ups and downs are part of the process, part of our spiritual growth, part of the victory God has planned for us. The high's and low's are part of God's plan. We seem surprised by them; as though we weren't intended for the low moments. But if we really read God's Word we see almost every player in the stories experience bounce. Job had everything, lost everything, got everything back. Joseph was his father's favorite, then betrayed by his brothers into slavery, then make second in command in Egypt. Peter walked with Jesus, denied Jesus, walked with Jesus again. It's bounce.

In the downtime of the bounce, take that time to refresh, renew, and grow. Because the low is only for a moment, in just a few moments you will bounce back up by the grace of God and launch into a new moment or season of life. Embrace the bounce as part of the process that leads to victory.

Jackpot

2010-03-15T04:45:00.000-07:00

A faithful man will be richly blessed, but one eager to get rich will not go unpunished. - Proverbs 28:20

It seems that every week in America someone strikes it rich. They win the jackpot. Some get rich by means of the lottery, others at a card table in Las Vegas. In their minds, these people went from poor to rich; from nothing to wealth. For most that's the fulfillment of a lifetime dream; immeasurable wealth. It's so easy to make our focus our lives on the pursuit of money.

That's what makes this verse in Proverbs so powerful because real wealth isn't found in pursuing wealth alone. It's found in the pursuit of God. It's through of our faithfulness to God that real riches can be found. Notice it didn't say that being rich was a sin. It absolutely doesn't say that. Faithfulness produces rich blessings. So why would God be against that? He isn't! But he is against a lifestyle and mindset that makes the money the focus and not God.

It's so important to understand that God wants you to be blessed; his Word promises it. But the blessing is contingent on our obedience and faithfulness. Change your focus from gaining wealth to living rich for God. Rich blessings from God last longer than any jackpot payout. You already hit the jackpot when you found Christ.

Sunny Days

2010-03-08T06:16:00.000-08:00

The end of last week and now the beginning of this one has me more and more excited about summer. These warmer days with a lot of sunshine start to turn my emotions and get me optimistically prepared for what is to come. I have noticed over the past 10 years that during the months of December, January, and February when the clouds are abundant and sunlight is at a minimum, I tend to be more discouraged and lethargic. But when we do get those rare sunny days where you can feel the warmth of the sunlight it seems to make all the difference. It's strange, I know that the seasons change and that the clouds will come but for some reason it always surprises me. Up days, then down days. Emotionally distressed then emotionally encouraged.

That's just the physical side of things. I've found a similar cycle in my spiritual life as well. I think the common misconception about Christianity is that we will never have a down day; we'll never be discouraged or drained. I'll happily burst the bubble for you; that's just not true. The Bible is filled with examples of real people, people who struggled with depression, discouragement, frustration, problems, financial issues, family struggles, job loss, economic downturn, spiritual questions, and the list goes on and on. The one constant through all theses trying times was their deep unwavering faith in God. Mark Batterson once said, "Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do each day is just not give up." I've admitted in the past that Monday's aren't my best day. After a mentally and emotionally draining Sunday I'm usually pretty wiped out. I've learned not to make any big decisions on Monday. I don't even schedule many meetings on Monday because it's not a good day for me to deal with conflict. Monday's are a cloudy day. But every week Tuesday comes and I launch forward. I don't use it as an excuse for anything, but I recognize that life happens and it usually happens to me on Monday.

Be encouraged today, no matter how cloudy it seems in your life today, the sun WILL shine again. Life will make sense, problems will subside, things will get better. And if your right in the middle of a sunny day; enjoy the sunlight and take the time to slow down and recharge. Clouds will come again, but they won't stay long. The ups and downs of life are typical. Like those Biblical examples, just stay anchored to God. When everything else seems to change, God is unchanging!

Have a GREAT week!
Pastor Mark

Take Aim & Shoot

2010-02-28T19:10:00.000-08:00

For the past 40 days we've taken an intentional journey in search of God's purpose for our lives both corporately and individually. And now we are faced with the decision that Christians have been faced with since the early church. Will we fulfill our God-given purpose or ignore it? It's the same question my parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents had to answer. I am living proof of their decision to strive after God's purposes and plans.

I believe that it's time for believers everywhere to take aim & shoot! Will we miss the mark at times? Yes. Will life potentially messy? Absolutely. Will we get it perfect? No chance. But I am convinced we have a better change of hitting God's bulls-eye if we take aim and shoot than if we do nothing. Those who never shoot always hit their target; which is nothing. Nothing changes in their life, no forward progress, no blessing. But when we make the decision to live for God's purposes and turn that decision into practical everyday choices we have the chance to change our lives and positively impact our world.

What are you waiting for? Take a shot. Make the everyday life choices to serve God's purpose. You won't be disappointed!!!

Pastor Mark

Crockpot Faith

2010-02-22T07:26:00.000-08:00

But those who wait on the LORD will renew their strength; They will mount up with wings like eagles, they will run and not be weary, they will walk and not faint. - Isaiah 40:31

Sometimes the hardest thing in life to do is wait. It just doesn't seem that we're naturally good at that; at least I know I'm not. We live in a culture where the physical act of waiting just seems unreasonable. Let's face it, we get mad when we have to wait in the drive-thru line for more than 5-minutes. If we have this much trouble waiting for a Big Mac or a Whopper, how much harder is it when it comes to waiting God?

Amazingly, this verse in Isaiah 40 tells us that one key element to growing in our faith is the action of waiting. That may sound silly because I said waiting is an action, but it's true. Tricia is a wonderful cook. Like most families, our meals run the gamete from fast food to home cooked. But some of the best meals are the ones she puts in the Crockpot at 8 a.m. and then simmers all day long. Sometimes it's a roast with carrots & potato's, other times it's a whole chicken smothered in BBQ sauce. Regardless, if you leave it alone, keep the lid on and let the Crockpot do it's thing, the meals come out tender and delicious. Now if you need a meal cooked in 10-minutes, then the Crockpot is not the cooking method of choice. That's when you use the microwave. The microwave will get the meal done in minutes. It is possible to get a tasty meal using this method, but more often than not the meal turns out dry, over or under cooked, and you are typically going to get 3rd degree burns in your mouth when you bite into the food.

In our daily journey of faith it's easy to take the shortcuts, circumvent God's time-line, and ultimately get there faster. That's what I call "Microwave Faith." It's definitely faster but the end product isn't all that God meant for it to be. As hard as it is to wait for, "Crockpot Faith" is usually what works best. That's where we place our lives in God's hands and trust his timing, allow him to season our lives along the journey, and produce in us an end result where our faith is properly developed. Waiting is so hard, but it is so worth it. As we simmer in God's Crockpot, we are slowly but surely developing the flavor of God; his character, attitude, and integrity. Have you ever noticed how the house smells after the Crockpot has been on all day? Even a guest in your home can smell the aroma as soon as they enter. I love what 2 Corinthians 2:15-16 say.

"For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who
are perishing. To the one we are the smell of death; to the other, the fragrance of life."

Make it your goal to develop Crockpot Faith. Wait on God this week and allow yourself to simmer in his presence. The end product is so worth it!!!

Have a GREAT week!
Pastor Mark

No Pain, No Gain

2010-02-15T06:24:00.000-08:00

When's the last time you heard that phrase? Maybe high school or college? As you read through the Bible you'll find hundreds of people that got to experience this concept first hand. I think the reason many believers struggle through problems is because we always view problems as bad. We think that a good Christian shouldn't have problems. Unfortunately, that's just not true. Jesus said we would have troubles of many kinds. And sometimes they will hurt; a lot!

In John 21:17 it says, "Peter was hurt....." On Mark Batterson's blog (Evotional.com) he wrote this. "Why was he hurt and who hurt him? Well it was Jesus who asked Peter the same question three times: do you love me? Peter was hurt that the Lord asked him three times, but I think it was His way of dealing with Peter's three denials. He didn't want to gloss over the issue. He wanted to deal with the denial. So in a brilliant fashion, Jesus healed Peter by hurting Peter."

For me, I've always learned the most about myself and about God in the middle of my problems and my struggles. He doesn't allow the problems to destroy me, he allows them to refine, shape, and grow me. My attitude always determines whether the outcome is positive or negative. He is still trying to "work all things together for my good."

If we want to grow in our faith, problems are part of the process. And sometimes it's the pains of our lives that position us for the blessing of our lives. Don't despise your situation, consider it the training grounds that position you for future success!

Have a Great week!

Win The Prize

2010-02-08T06:14:00.000-08:00

Last night many people watched two teams battle each other. For the past 5 months each team trained, practiced, and played for one solitary purpose; a Superbowl victory. And once that goal is achieved, every player wants to get their hands on the Lombardi Trophy, simply to hoist it over their heads one time. For them it's not just a sculpture or piece of metal. It's the prize that symbolizes the work, effort, and achievement that they've focused on since Jr. High. For them it's not just A prize, it's THE prize!

I wasn't all that prolific in High School sports. The highlight of my athletic career was in eighth grade basketball. That year I was the tallest kid on the team and averaged 10 points per game. Unfortunately I haven't really grown much since eighth grade. So freshman year proved to be a little startling to my basketball career when I showed up for tryouts and I was one of the shortest guys. Regardless, I've received a few trophies in my life, although none as significant as the Lombardi.

But to be honest, the prize I'm striving to achieve isn't available in this lifetime. Oh, I've derailed at times and tried to gain the world's accolades, but they never seemed near as shiny once I got them. The ultimate prize I want to achieve is mentioned in Philippians 3:13-14.

"One thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."

Our first struggle in winning the prize is forgetting the past. I need to learn from my past but I don't need to dwell on it. I can't change my yesterdays but I can change my todays. Our second problem is focus. The idea of straining toward what's ahead is such a great visual. It takes effort, it likely won't be easy, but it's definitely worth it. We just have to stay focused on the prize. I love the way Philippians 3:12-16 reads in the Message Bible (paraphrase).

"I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don't get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I've got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I'm off and running, and I'm not turning back. So let's keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision—you'll see it yet! Now that we're on the right track, let's stay on it."

This week press on toward the prize God has for your life!!

Have a GREAT week!
Pastor Mark

Life

2010-01-31T18:36:00.001-08:00

Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get!

I think Forest Gump's momma must have been on to something when she said this. As much as we would love to know every step and reason for everything in life, we just aren't going to find them most days. Sure I can look at God's manual for life, the Bible, and I can see that God has purpose for my life; specifically for me and specifically for you. But even knowing that purpose doesn't guarantee that I will always understand everything I go through of the reasons why I go through them. On our best and worst days the best we can do is simply trust that God's plans will be accomplished in our lives and his faithfulness will never cease. I'm reminded of a few select verses from Psalm 25.

Psalm 25 (New Living Translation)
¹ O Lord, I give my life to you.
² I trust in you, my God!
³ No one who trusts in you will ever be disgraced......
⁴ Show me the right path, O Lord;
point out the road for me to follow.
⁵ Lead me by your truth and teach me,
for you are the God who saves me.
All day long I put my hope in you..........
⁸ The Lord is good and does what is right;
he shows the proper path to those who go astray.
⁹ He leads the humble in doing right,
teaching them his way.
¹⁰ The Lord leads with unfailing love and faithfulness
all who keep his covenant and obey his demands........
¹² Who are those who fear the Lord?
He will show them the path they should choose.
¹³ They will live in prosperity,
and their children will inherit the land.
¹⁴ The Lord is a friend to those who fear him.

Life may seem uncertain or even like a roller coaster at times, but trust in God. His plans will not fail as long as we hold firmly to him!

Have a great week!
Pastor Mark

The Mouth of CHRIST

2010-01-25T05:48:00.000-08:00

These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their worship is a farce, for they teach man-made ideas as commands from God. - Matthew 15:8-9 (NLT)

Do you want to know what makes being a Christian most difficult? Well here's my answer, and strictly my opinion. I believe what makes being a Christian most difficult are other people who publicize themselves as Christians in public but their private actions and public words don't match the truth of God's Word. Based on this verse I think Jesus may have felt the same way. Jesus was quoting Isaiah 29:13 from the Old Testament when he said these words in Matthew 15.

How did we get to the place where so-called Christians can proclaim Christ but deny the moral & spiritual absolutes of his Word? I think it starts with the abandoning of absolute truth. What is truth for a Christian? Truth is whatever God says; therefore the Bible IS absolute & ultimate truth. Anything that contradicts Biblical truth is not truth; it's a lie! Will the Bible contradict my opinion? In most cases, absolutely! And in those instances, what's suppose to change; my opinion or God's Word? My opinion is supposed to adjust to the truth! When I try to change truth to fit my opinion I will always become like the people Jesus and Isaiah were describing and our view of absolute truth becomes subjective. This is when Christians start saying things like, "I believe that some people are born with homosexual tendencies.....or.....In some situations it's ok to tell a lie if it doesn't hurt someone else." And those are just the beginnings of our spiritual delusions.

Why is this my choice for what makes it most difficult to be a Christian? Simple. It's because these people encounter people who aren't Christians, they spew their version of truth, then mislead people and misrepresent God. The end result is a person who now believes a diluted truth, thus making it harder for them to be reached with the accurate and honest gospel message. The Bible says that we as Christians are supposed to make up the body of Christ. The illustration in scripture is that of the parts of a body coming together and working together for God's purpose with Christ as the head. My complaint is that we've become the mouth of Christ instead of the body of Christ. We want to talk a lot but what we often have to say doesn't line up with God's truth.

What's the solution? Before you brag about your Christian status consider this checklist for faith. Do I read God's Word and talk to him daily? Am I committed to joining other believers for weekly worship & teaching? Am I doing life together with other believers through small group settings? Am I using my talents & abilities within the church to serve the other believers? Am I passionate and active in reaching the unsaved both locally and globally? If you can't answer these questions affirmatively, then you are neglecting the most basic of God's commands for Christian life. Thus, I plead with you.....STOP verbally proclaiming your Christianity until you are physically willing to live out God's commands. St. Francis of Assisi once said, "Preach the gospel at all times--if necessary, use words! Well said!

Have a great week!

Making Sense Of The Chaos

2010-01-18T06:12:00.000-08:00

An Update From Convoy Of Hope...........
Hundreds of desperate Haitians are in line waiting for food at Quisqueya Chapel—Convoy of Hope’s main distribution point in Port-au-Prince. Yesterday, the Convoy of Hope team distributed 100,000 meals here and at five other distribution points.

“Having partners like Haiti, the national Assemblies of God church and Mission of Hope has allowed us access to parts of the city we could have never gotten into,” says Paul Coroleuski, Convoy of Hope’s director of field services who is in Haiti. “Without our partners we would be like many other relief organizations who have food and supplies in country but are facing enormous logistical and security problems getting those items distributed.”

Food supplies are running low in Haiti and show no signs of improving anytime soon. But even when food is available—as it is in limited amounts on some street corners from vendors—many families simply do not have the cash to pay for it.

“My house is damaged, I need food, but I have no money to buy it,” says Ralph, a twenty-something-year-old who could be speaking for tens of thousands of hungry Haitians.

“The situation regarding food and water remains dire,” says Kevin Rose, Haiti director for Convoy of Hope. “The lack of fuel and security issues has made it very difficult to move food around the city. But through our network of partners we are getting food into some of the most desperate places.”

Rose says the food being distributed to earthquake victims is inventory from Convoy of Hope’s warehouse that is used to feed 7,000 children each day who are a part of Convoy of Hope’s feeding initiative in Haiti.

“That supply will last 10 to 14 more days,” admits Rose. “So, we need to replenish the warehouse as fast as we can to ensure that we can keep feeding the children in our program while also continuing to provide food for those who are suffering from the earthquake.”

If the condition of the earthquake-damaged neighborhood that surrounds the distribution point at Quisqueya Chapel is any indicator—Sunday’s distribution of food will only be one of many more to come in the months ahead.

If you are looking for a trusted organization to contribute to for Haitian relief, Convoy of Hope is the organization I wholeheartedly suggest to you. Click on the link below to go to their website and make a contribution.

Hope

2010-01-11T06:33:00.000-08:00

Optimism says “It’s not so bad!” Hope admits “Yes, it’s bad. Really bad. But I still believe & trust in God!”, Rick Warren

People say all the time that we should be more optimistic. Optimistic about the weather, the economy, our jobs, our families, & the Packers. But the tendency with optimism is that it suggests we should pretend that our current situations really don't exist. And if we do acknowledge them, we are in some way pessimistic or lack faith. That's mindset is just silly.

If you had the symptoms of asthma and it was confirmed by a doctor, is it logical or fair for me to say you lacked faith simply because you told me you had asthma? You are just stating one side of the facts. Optimism tries to get us to deny the facts. Hope on the other hand accepts the facts, but understands the facts are only part of the story. Hope not only sees the problem, but more importantly, hope sees the answer. You can be optimistic about your cancer diagnosis, but that doesn't change the fact that you still have cancer. But hope not only accepts the diagnosis it recognizes that there is a solution that is bigger than the problem.

Hope only works when it's placed in a reliable source. And the only truly reliable source is God. As you go through this next week, it's ok to identify your life situations. But realize that your hope is firmly established in a God who is bigger, greater, and better than all your problems.

Psalm 25:5 You are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.
Psalm 31:24 Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD.
Psalm 33:20 We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and our shield.
Psalm 62:5 Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him.
Psalm 71:14 But as for me, I will always have hope; I will praise you more and more.

Primal: Quest For The Lost Soul Of Christianity

2010-01-04T05:56:00.000-08:00

With my first post of the new year, I wanted to share a book with you that I believe would be a great read for the beginning of the year. The book is "Primal" by Mark Batterson. Mark pastor's National Community Church, a hugely successful and growing church on Capital Hill in Washington D.C. Tricia and I had the impromptu opportunity to meet Mark at their Capital Hill coffee house Ebenezer's, on our trip to D.C. in October 2008. His kindness, generosity, and humble heart as well as his proven writing in 2 previous books makes me comfortable to share this book with you and to encourage you to rush out and purchase it for your own personal spiritual growth. You can purchase it at Amazon or ask for it at your local Christian bookstore.

We're all familiar with the Ten Commandments, if not at least the concepts they convey. But what we tend to forget is Jesus words in Mark 12:30 where he says, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength." Jesus classified this as the first and greatest commandment while not abolishing the former. In the book Primal, Mark steers us back to this often forgotten commandment that at it's core should be the bulls-eye of life for every self-professing Christian. If we can't get this commandment right the rest just simply doesn't matter. Mark takes the opportunity to take people beyond the surface level of this verse to the depth of really understanding what it means to live this verse out in our everyday lives. In the chapter 5 as he targets how we love God with our soul, Mark talks about what happens when we read God's Word.

"The quest for the lost soul of Christianity always leads us back to the Bible. But rediscovering the wonders of Scripture requires more than reading. That's where the quest begins, but that's not where it ends. Not if you want to get it into your soul. You have to meditate on it (think about God's Word). Then you have to live it out. Meditating on it turns one-dimensional knowledge into two-dimensional understanding. Living it out turns two-dimensional understanding into three-dimensional obedience."

Allowing the Word to get into our soul is more than just reading it, it also involves applying it. He goes on to use the analogy of the radio waves that are all around us on a daily basis. If you tune your radio to AM 1460, as long as you're on that wavelength, a world of information is available to you.

"...the Spirit of God is always broadcasting. But we've got to tune in to his frequency. The Holy Spirit has multiple channels of communication.......But His primary channel of communication is Scripture. When we open the Bible, it's like God opens His mouth. That's how we get on His frequency. That's how we tune into his voice."

What a powerful yet simplistic way to understand how God connects with our soul. I encourage you to pick up a copy of the book for yourself and enjoy the journey.

Have a great week!
Pastor Mark

Merry Christmas

2009-12-21T06:55:00.000-08:00

Christmas is just a few days away. Many will celebrate with family or friends and take advantage of a few days off. Think back to the Christmas's of your past. Which ones stand out as some of the best in your life? I can remember the year my brother and I got a basketball goal. That was back in the day when they didn't make the portable ones like they do now. My dad had to buy a steel pole, dig a whole in the ground, concrete it in, then attach the basketball goal. When you think about all that work it makes me feel bad about how much I complained a few years ago when I spent $100 and 2 hours putting Jonathan's basketball goal together. I can remember the year my brother got a train track and after my dad put it together we played with it for a while. I can remember the first and only video game system my parents bought us back in the 80's; the Colecovision. That was the game system that originated games like Q-Bert & Frogger.

Times have certainly changed since I was a kid; as it has for everyone over the years. Some change we seem to fight. But if we were honest, aren't you glad someone came up with the microwave oven? (Fun Fact: As a teenager I mowed the lawn of the man who was the CEO of Amana when they invented & produced the first microwave oven for home use) But even with all the changes over the years, one thing still remains; Jesus. He is still the reason we celebrate. He is still the greatest gift that's ever been given to mankind.

My greatest memories about Christmas don't center on presents, family gatherings, or Santa Claus. The greatest thing for me is the story of a Savior who came to earth, born in a manger in humble conditions. The entire real-life story is all about God's love for us and his desire to redeem us back to himself. John 3:16 is still true, "For God so loved the world that he gave....." He gave us the greatest gift ever. Let me encourage you to regift Jesus this year. Take that gift given by God and give it again to someone else. Show them the love and compassion of God. That's the greatest gift you could ever give to someone.

Have a great Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Pastor Mark

Less IS More

2009-12-14T07:46:00.000-08:00

I am a person who tends to contemplate a lot. Even when I am trying to take a break, rest, or watch the game, I find myself in a constant state of contemplation. I am constantly evaluating, continuously planning, and consistently considering what could, should, or can be done. My thoughts range from personal, spiritual, and family situations. But mostly my mind is consumed with whether or not I am being effective for God. Is the church effective for God or as effective as God wants it to be? On most days I have far more questions that I do answers.

With all those questions without answers I begin to wonder, "Am I in God's will or in God's way?" In my life I think I've concluded that it's most likely both. When I lay my head on the pillow at night, even with all those questions in my head, I know I am in God's will. But when I look at my role in his will, I also see that I tend to get in the way an awful lot. I am reminded of what John the Baptist said in John 3:30 when Jesus came on the scene and he realized that his role was changing. John said this, "He must become greater; I must become less." How do we do that? It's so hard, isn't it? I understand the simplicity of the concept; but never has simplicity been so difficult. But.....my heart longs for a deep walk with God. I have to become less so that he can become more. I have to relinquish control so that he can steer my life. I have to understand less and learn to trust more. 2 Corinthians 12:9 tells me that in my weakest moments, that is when God makes me strong. 1 Corinthians 1:25 says "For the foolishness of God is wiser than man's wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than man's strength." It's when you and I become less that God can increase in our lives.

This week, why don't you pray John 3:30, "God make me less, so you can become greater." Have a great week!

FREE GIFT: Wisdom

2009-12-07T04:33:00.000-08:00

I know this is probably a stupid question, but here it is anyway. Have you ever made a dumb decision? A decision you wished you could remake or not make at all? I would guess I've done that at least a million times. When I read the newspaper or watch the news I see tons of people who for one reason or another, have made the most unreasonable decisions ever. Most often our bad decisions stem from a lack of wisdom. Wisdom isn't something you pick up at the grocery store with the carrots and toilet tissue. Most people gain their wisdom from what we call the "school of hard knocks." And I would agree that there is a measure of wisdom to learn simply from the mistakes in our lives. But did you realize there is a much better sources of wisdom.

James 1:5 "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." Amazingly enough, God has given us permission to ask him for wisdom. Not only permission but he is willing to generously make deposits of wisdom into our lives. God of all people, doesn't want us making dumb decisions everyday. He loves us and wants our lives to be blessed. His free gift of wisdom allows us to make better decisions in our families, our jobs, and in our everyday life decisions.

So it all comes down to asking, at least that's what this verse says. If you lack wisdom; ask God! On a weekly basis I find myself asking God for more of his wisdom to lead my family, our church, and my own life. So this holiday season, take advantage of one of the only free gifts available. Ask God for more wisdom and he will give it to you.

Have a great week!

Roadblock

2009-11-30T06:20:00.000-08:00

In life there are different types of roadblocks. Don't you hate it when you're talking to someone and you try to remember the name of someone you've known all you life and for some reason you get a mental roadblock? (I tend to live in a state of mental block...ha.ha.) Or even the physical kind where you hit the highway and find out your usual route is blocked and you're required to take a detour. How would you feel if you knew there was someone always planning to block your path, success, blessing, and progress?

Guess what, there is someone who is planning against you. There is someone who is constantly attempting to establish spiritual roadblocks in your life. Satan is constantly trying to close the road to your blessing, your spiritual growth, and God's purpose for your life. I have to remind myself regularly that Satan is continuously working against me. He's a liar, a thief, and an all around jerk! But he is not in control of my ultimate outcome. No matter how many roadblocks he may set up, God can and will tear them down when I ask him too (notice the emphasis is on "asking him"). Ask God to destroy the roadblocks in your life. Take your needs to him. Be persistent! Act on God's Word and expect his promises to come true.

Matthew 18:18 "I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. ¹⁹"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. (NIV)
Matthew 7:7 "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. ⁸For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. (NIV)

Ask God, according to his will, and he will blast you through the roadblocks in your life! Have a great week!

Pastor Mark

Friends, Critics, & Trolls

2009-11-22T19:34:00.000-08:00

This is probably some of the best information about dealing with criticism that I've read in a while. I read it on Michal Hyatt's blog a few weeks ago (http://michaelhyatt.com). Michael is the CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers. While this writing was directed toward leaders, I believe there is something for each of us to learn as we lead those around us. Have a GREAT week! __________________________________________________________________________

If you are a leader, you are going to attract critics. It is inevitable. In fact, if you aren’t attracting critics, you should be wondering why. Criticism is normal.

Why? Because real leaders upset the status quo and make people uncomfortable. As Finley Peter Dunne once said about journalists, “Our job is to afflict the comfortable and comfort the afflicted.” The same is true of leaders. Unfortunately, this almost always meets with resistance.

But let’s be honest: criticism hurts. At least it does for me. I’ve been in the public spotlight since my first book, The Millennium Bug, hit the New York Times bestseller list over ten years ago. Writing three more books, becoming a CEO of a large publishing company, and launching a very public blog hasn’t helped.

Theoretically, I know this is just the price you pay. But emotionally, it kills me. It always knocks me off-kilter. You might think I would be past that. But I am not. I obsess about it, spending way more time thinking about it than I should. I wish this wasn’t true, but it is. (Just ask my wife!)

One of the things that has helped me in the past few years is to distinguish between three kinds of critics:

True friends. Not all criticism is bad. God forbid that we should turn a deaf ear to everyone who disagrees with us. “Faithful are the wounds of a friend” (Proverbs 27:6). Some people are in our lives to save us from ourselves. As a leader, the trick is to create an environment that is safe for dissension, so these people can speak up.
Honest critics. Some people decide that they disagree with you and go public. They aren’t malicious. They aren’t out to destroy you. They simply disagree with you. That’s okay. We need to allow for a diversity of opinion. Besides, we might learn something from it. It enriches the conversation. We need to engage these people and refrain from making it personal. Not everyone has to agree with us.
Unhealthy trolls. These people have an agenda. They are out to hurt you—or at least use you for their own ends. They want to lure you into a fight. I have had three this week. They taunt and mock you. They are unreasonable. If you engage them, they will only distract you and deplete your resources. The best thing you can do is ignore them. As someone once said, “resistance only makes them stronger.” You will never satisfy them. Just keep doing what you know you are called to do.

As a leader, you must learn to distinguish between these three. I personally assume that everyone is a friend or an honest critic until they prove other otherwise. I may be naive, but I would rather give people the benefit of the doubt than live a life of paranoia. What about you?

What Is So Important......

2009-11-16T08:29:00.000-08:00

I once heard someone say, "Don't allow the urgent things in life to keep you from the important." It made me think because there are so many things we give the title urgent. In reality, a majority of the urgent things are a result of poor planning or lack of forethought. When a project is due and we only have a day left to complete it, we put it on the urgent list (even though we had 4 weeks and procrastinated until the last minute). It's important to take care of our families, be faithful to our commitments, and be people of integrity and character. For this week consider how many urgent things never had to get to that level if they were planned for better.

But let's take it one step further. What is most important to you on a daily basis? Everyone's list will look a little different. It may involve family, job, kids activities, hobbies; fill in the blank. What's important on my list may not mean anything to you. But here is what I want you to think about this week. What is important to God? What is on his list? And when you compare your list to his, do they match up? Recently I heard someone make this statement, "What are we doing that's more important than reaching people with the love of God?" That made me stop and think for a minute; actually I'm still thinking about it. Because when I remember that this world is not my home, I realize that most of the important things on my list are really unimportant. The only thing that is eternal is my faith in God and the people around me everyday; and yes, in that order (God then people). That statement really made me think. I hope it makes you think this week too.

"God....help my list match your list....help me to understand what's really important....and give me every opportunity to show others your love. AMEN!"

Smile!

2009-11-09T06:19:00.000-08:00

Here is one thing I know about my personality...I love to have fun. If something isn't fun, I attempt to make it fun. Because if it isn't fun, I get bored really quick. Isn't it amazing how we can do something we hate, but if we do it with the right attitude and a good measure of joy it can go by fast and seem not so bad? I used to think that my circumstances determined whether my life was filled with joy or anguish. But in reality, the measure of my joy in the day will be determined by my decisions. If I choose to have a great day, I will! And if I choose to have a bad day, I will! Joy is my choice!

You see, God has already given you every reason to have a great day. He's already put everything in place for you to have the best week of your life. He is waiting on you to decide to live in joy today, this week, this year, this life! Regardless of what your checking account balance is, we are blessed. Regardless of your health status, God is awesome. Our lives have the potential to either reflect the greatness of God or the depravity of our world. Reflect the life-changing traits of God this week; love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Take time to smile this week and in doing so you become a billboard of God's love.

Psalm 118:24 - "This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it."
Proverbs 15:13 - "A happy heart makes the face cheerful...."
Proverbs 17:22 - "A cheerful heart is good medicine...."
Psalm 97:11-12 - "Light is shed upon the righteous and joy on the upright in heart. Rejoice in the LORD, you who are righteous, and praise his holy name."
Nehemiah 8:10 - The joy of the LORD is your strength.

It's Not About Me

2009-11-02T03:38:00.000-08:00

One of the greatest joys of my life is being a father. And while a big part of parenting is teaching your child the difference between right and wrong, I've found it interesting what I also learn from them. For a child, the most important thing is self-preservation. That simply means they care most about themselves. They focus on what they want, when they want it, and everything else is just details. I spend a lot of time, especially when they were younger, trying to help them understand that life isn't all about them. That mom and dad don't exist on this earth simply to make sure they get everything they want. That's a tough thing for a kid to learn.

It's a tough thing for adults to learn also. If we were completely honest, we spend most of our lives thinking "it's all about me." Now as painful as it might be to admit that, you know it's true. We make our decisions based on what we want, when we want it, and how we must live to get it. And all the while our heavenly father, God, is trying to help us understand, it's not all about me! Colossians 1:16 tells us, "For everything, absolutely everything, above and below, visible and invisible......everything got started in him and finds its purpose in him. (Message)" I didn't create my life, so what makes me think that I get to determine it's purpose. God created everyone with HIS purpose. And his purpose is always better than mine. It's always more beneficial than mine. All I have to do is admit it's not all about me. God is less concerned about what you want, and more concerned about who you are becoming.

"God, this week help me think less about myself and more about you........help me let go of my plans and grab hold of yours.......use me in such a way that others will know I am yours........AMEN!"

7 Tithing Tips

2009-10-26T06:28:00.000-07:00

There is always something to learn in life. I enjoy reading others writings, blogs, and thoughts in an effort to be a lifelong learner. In reading Mark Batterson's blog this week I found this post about tithing. It encouraged me and I thought I'd pass it on. Have a GREAT week!
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Continued our Ritual series this weekend. Talked about a 4000 year-old ritual called tithing that traces all the way back to Abraham. Honestly, I used to hate talking about money. Thought people would think it was a money grab so I was almost defensive about it. But the longer I tithe the more I love talking about it.

We need a paradigm shift. So many people perceive the tithe as an obligation. It's an opportunity! Yes, Malachi 3 says you are "under a curse" if you are not giving a tenth. But what a promise! God wants to open the windows of heaven and pour out a blessing on you that you cannot contain.

Here are a few principles I shared this weekend:

1) God can do more with 90% than I can do with 100%
2) U cannot out give God
3) 2 be blessed beyond your ability u need to give beyond your ability
4) When u start tithing, your financial problems become God's problem
5) The tithe keeps money from becoming your master
6) Tithing positions u 4 blessing
7) Tithing = Trusting

In my personal experience, tithing makes finances fun. It infuses me with economic optimism because I'm walking in obedience. I live in holy anticipation to see the way God is going to provide!

MATERIALISM......The Downfall

2009-10-19T06:19:00.000-07:00

While having coffee with a friend this morning, we found ourselves discussing what I believe is likely the most effective trap of Satan in our lives; materialism. What is materialism?
ma⋅te⋅ri⋅al⋅ism
(muh-teer-ee-uh-liz-uhm) –noun
Preoccupation with or emphasis on material objects, comforts, and considerations, with a disinterest in or rejection of spiritual, intellectual, or cultural values.

That definition is such a clear example of what is happening in our culture today......and in the lives of Christians today! We have become focused on getting, having, and acquiring while becoming uninterested in spiritual things; or more plainly, the Bible and our commitment to God comes in 2nd place. If you were asked to list the top 10 things (possessions) you want, it would only take you 30 seconds to make that list. We have become ADDICTED to materialism!!!

Why aren't most so-called Christians serving in a ministry, tithing regularly, reading their Bible & praying regularly, faithful in attendance, etc.? Because we are working overtime to pay for all the stuff we have OR saving to buy the stuff we want. Many don't think they can tithe because they live paycheck to paycheck, not because they are poor, but because they're spending everything they have to get what they want. We don't serve because of our selfish materialistic mindsets. Basically we've decided we want it our way instead of God's way. Jesus knew this was going to happen. That's why he said to seek first the kingdom of God, then all the other things would be given to us (Matt. 6:33). How simple; love God, serve God, obey God, want God more than anything else. If we do that, God will provide everything we need. Just think, you are wasting your life chasing after stuff that God said would be the natural byproduct of wanting him more than anything. This is the trap Satan sets for us in America especially. As you consider these thoughts this week, think about some of these quotes.

It is preoccupation with possessions, more than anything else, that prevents us from living freely and nobly. --Thoreau

There is something perverse about more than enough. When we have more, it is never enough. It is always somewhere out there, just out of reach. The more we acquire, the more elusive enough becomes. – Unknown

Lust is all GET—Love is all GIVE. –Unknown

You say, 'If I had a little more, I should be very satisfied.' You make a mistake. If you are not content with what you have, you would not be satisfied if it were doubled. - Charles Spurgeon

Materialism is the only form of distraction from true bliss. - Doug Horton

The best things in life aren't things. - Art Buchwald

The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. - Jesus

Seasons Change

2009-10-12T06:18:00.000-07:00

As I sit and enjoy a cup of coffee this morning, I am struck by the undeniable fact that the season is changing. Weather forecasters are predicting the chance of snow for today; which I learned would tie the earliest recorded measurable snowfall for this same day, October 12, in 1909. The leaves have barely turned colors and I'm already thinking about dusting off the snow blower to make sure it's ready for whatever may come. A joke we had in St. Louis regarding the weather was, "If you don't like the weather today just stick around, it will change tomorrow!" I am starting to think that applies everywhere.......well, not Florida, but most everywhere! When it comes to weather I've come to the realization that I don't have any control over it and no amount of complaint will change it. It's a season that will come and go as it pleases.

It's amazing how quickly seasons can change. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says it this way, "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven." I've learned that life also seems to have the cycle of seasons to it as well. There are seasons of spring-like growth and summer blessing. There's also seasons of autumn-like shedding and winter freeze. In my life, I've experienced all of the seasons. We would all prefer to have the spring and summer seasons because they seem to be the most productive, then avoid the others. But in life it's just not possible to do that; and it's not healthy. We need the seasons of pruning and purging in our lives to strips us of everything that holds us down and drains our strength.

I've talked with a few people lately who've been going through tough seasons of life, but they are beginning to see the budding of fresh spiritual life. No matter what season you are in right now, just know that another season is coming and it isn't a negative thing; it's a necessary thing. Seasons of change are a part of God's plan for your life. Embrace them, seek God for wisdom in them, and know that a new season is just on the other side of the one you're currently in.

Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. (New Living Translation)

Train Up A Child.......Part 3

2009-10-06T08:07:00.000-07:00

There comes that time when a child morphs from Hot Wheels and Barbie Dolls to fast cars and makeup. And for many parents this is when they freak out and start doing what they swore they would never do; act like their parents! They start to yell, scream, threaten, and demean along with everything else they hated about how their parents treated them when they were a teenager. After working with teenage students for over 11 years and counseling countless parents, let me share some steps that may help you be successful and even enjoy the teenage years.

Take Responsibility! If you ceased to feed, provide for, or even began to abuse your teenage student; you would be arrested and charged with neglect. As long as your child lives in your home, you are responsible. Just because they turn 16 and drive, doesn't mean you are off the hook for training them. Parents have told me, "I can't make my son do anything, he's 15 years old." That is a cop-out! What they mean to say is, "We don't want to deal with it because it will involve an argument, so we've decided to not do anything." Parents MUST take responsibility to teach, train, and raise their teenage students.
Set The Example! As I stated last week, if you don't like the behaviors and actions of your teenagers, step one is to evaluate the example the parents are setting in front of them everyday. To be fair, it's not always the parents fault for their teenagers behaviors and actions. But more often than not, the consistent Godly example of a parent is the greatest influence in the life of a teenager long-term. Yes, friends and culture are a huge influence as well, but notice I said the parents influence is the greatest "long-term."
Set Healthy & Fair Boundaries! Why does the highway department put a guardrail around the edge of a cliff? To keep you from running off and getting hurt or possibly killed. One of the most dangerous things parents can do is when they don't set up healthy and fair boundaries for their teenager. While your student will never say they appreciate your boundaries, they need them and WANT them! When you set no boundaries you are non-verbally saying, "I don't care about you." But when you do, even when they fight it, your boundaries express, "I love you so much I want to protect you!" Remember the key here is healthy and fair. Establish the consequences before they fail. That way they know what to expect and this lets them know the punishment is not based on anger. Then lovingly follow through with the consequences when they step outside the boundaries.
Talk TO Them Not AT Them! When our children are small we often use the phrase, "Because I said so." Mostly because they wouldn't understand even if we explained it to them. But once they start hitting the "tween" years (10 - 12) that answer isn't fair anymore. Why do teenagers not listen and roll their eyes when we talk to them? Usually because we aren't talking to them, we're talking at them. It's easier to talk at them. But they don't learn anything. Remember that one of the goals of parenting teenage students is to prepare them for adulthood. When you take the opportunity to talk to your teenager it means you discuss, explain truth, listen, hear their feelings as well, then take that all and come to an understanding that establishes a healthy & fair boundary. When you talk to your teenage student you will eventually earn their trust and respect.

These are just a few things to remember when training up your teenage students. Remember, no parent gets it right all the time. But when you mess up (and most of the time your child knows you messed up) set the example by talking about it with them and asking for their forgiveness. Many times I've had to apologize for disciplining unfairly or talking to them to harshly. There is nothing more humbling than to ask a 5, 12, or 17 year old to forgive you. But it feels good when you know you just set the example for what's right.

Have a great week!

Train Up A Child.......Part 2

2009-09-28T06:07:00.000-07:00

Last week we started talking about the responsibility of parents to train (teach, instruct, & discipline) their children regarding morals, integrity, right/wrong, and most importantly about what it means to live for and serve God. I said I would give some simple ideas to help you effectively train your children. So I'll focus on birth to 12 years old today.

Training starts at birth: Your children are born without habits. So everything they learn starts with you. As a parent, grandparent, or caregiver consider your habits. Whatever behaviors or attitudes you model in front of a child, good or bad, will become the norm for them.
Discipline must be intentional: With both my kids, there was a time between age 1 & 2 where we began instituting intentional discipline. It was around the time when the kids started walking and could touch everything. There comes a moment, and you will know when this is, when you your child reaches for the T.V. power button and you say "no", they look at you and inch closer and touch it anyway. You just reached the discipline moment. Why do we start young? Is it easier to teach a child the meaning of the word no when they have no habits, or at age 7 when they've already learned that your "no" doesn't really mean no? The question people often battle over is "to spank or not to spank." Notice I didn't say "beat", there is a big difference. We've always used a combination of verbal warning, spanking, & time outs. Use what works, be fair, be consistent, and follow through with your communicated discipline plan. Discipline won't happen by accident.
Gratitude & Respect: It's so important for children to learn to be grateful and respectful at an early age. With regard to gratitude the simple things make a huge difference. Teach your child to say thank you and please. Most of our teaching here is wrong. We tell kids to say it, but we don't explain why. So what we end up teaching them is say these words and you'll get what you want. Gratitude is more than thank you and please. Tell them why they say thank you; explain that they are blessed. Respect is another key area of training. I was in a setting recently where a child under the age of 5 was allowed to speak completely disrespectfully to an adult. I could not believe the way the child acted. Tricia and I have always trained our children to be respectful to us, each other, other children, and to adults. If we are in their presence and they act disrespectfully toward someone, we take immediate action to appropriately correct the behavior. Disrespect is unacceptable at any age. And if we don't teach that early, it only get harder later on in the teenage years.

These are just 3 very practical but very important steps you can take with your younger child. When Tricia and I brought Jonathan home for the first time we looked back at back at him in the back seat and said to each other, "I can't believe they are letting us take him home. Don't they know we don't have a clue what we are doing? Where's the manual?" Well there isn't a manual, but there are some great resources available. Check the local Christian bookstore for more resources to improve your parenting skills.

Next week I will give you some practical advice about how to train up your teenage students.

Have a GREAT week!!!